A WETV Throwback: For The Bestie Who’s Always There
This throwback to our “Messy Connection” series is something I wish we could all do a lot more of. There are so many moments when a friend, trusted with an audience, shines brightly—but beside her, there’s always a sister who keeps her grounded. The one who stays level-headed, steady in her faith, and ten toes down no matter what comes their way. I had to take a moment to give flowers to my bestie, and I want you to do the same. Share this video with someone you know who deserves theirs too. Let’s honor those who hold us up in ways that often go unseen, but are always felt. Stream and watch the Messy Connection series exclusively on the Woman Evolve TV app. New subscribers receive full access to all content and the first 7 days are on us!
you definitely want friends who are
where you want to be so you said
something about you know you didn’t want
to be around people who were in the same
the same Circle as you the same
predicament you want to have friends
that can take you above where you are so
in certain aspects I have different
friends who are who are in different
levels or higher levels than where I am
so that I can push myself not that I
have any type of jealousy or I want to
be where they are but like you said Co
God is showing me what’s available to me
or where I can go and having friends at
higher levels helps push me out of my
comfort zone and that’s a few guys even
Courtney hearing you speak at your
company about diversity and things that
helps me too because um public speaking
that’s something we everybody’s having
to do especially in quarantine so that’s
something I’ve been stepping out of my
comfort zone doing even more and I
appreciate you all for helping push me
out of my Nest it’s my
pleasure Courtney I have to tell you
that one of the things I admire about
you that I hope to continue to just
apply to my life is your loyalty your
consistency and your stability like you
are the one of the most
consistent stable loyal focused people I
know and I know that you always talk
about like how you don’t have to like be
on the front stage like you don’t mind
being behind the scenes but a lot of
people say that and they don’t really
mean it and it shows up in how they’re
envious of other people people and I
can’t imagine that it’s always easy for
you to be in that position but you stay
there in such a way that makes me make
sure that I’m showing up as someone who
is as consistent as loyal and doesn’t
have a need to even take a little piece
of the spotlight you know but to really
allow people to have their moments
you’ve been so great at allowing people
to have their moments and I feel like
honestly I I wasn’t planning on saying
this I I feel like there are so many
moments that you have allowed people to
have and for every moment that you have
allowed people to have that God sees
that a seed for you that it is you
sewing into the moments that you’re
going to have and you’re going to get
them consecutively when it happens it’s
going to be like God I thought you
didn’t see me God I was there for
everyone else I didn’t know what was
happening and that God was actually
saying I had your Spotlight I had your
moments all on reserve I feel that for
you for real
oh you always got a word thank you don’t
you start I didn’t need a lot I don’t
need a lot I
will I will go out how do you do that
though Court like who do you have to
become in order to remain that
consistent and stable I honestly think
in my friendships I give what I didn’t
have that I desired in my
family so I I I don’t know how else to
like describe it like as loyal as I am
to people that how I wish I had for my
family the the trust that I have with my
friends that’s how I wish I had with my
family the communication that I’m
learning to continue to have that’s
something I’m evolving in um is what I
wish I had there and so I guess I’m just
rebuilding what I felt like was a void
that I lacked in in being intentional
and doing that in my friendships I don’t
want to continue to be this woe is me
this or oh you know in spite of this
like I want to be able to live out
everything that I’ve always desired that
I felt I lacked in other people so I
can’t be upset that I can’t trust my
family or that my family wasn’t loyal to
me if I’m not demonstrating that to
others and so I feel like that’s kind of
why I do it wow I love
that me too well it shows and I stand by
what I said you’ve been so great so
consistent