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>> Hello and welcome
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A word that is relevant
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Let His word speak to you today.
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>> I’m gonna give you one verse
of scripture tonight
and I’m just gonna teach what
I feel the Lord has laid on
my heart, let it speak to you.
“Because David did what
was right – Verse five:
“Because David did what was
right in the eyes of the Lord,
and had not turned aside
from anything that He commanded
him all the days of his life,
except in the matter
of Uriah the Hittite.”
He did everything right
in the eyes of the Lord,
he turned not aside from
anything the He commanded him
all the days of his life except
this matter of Uriah,
the Hittite.
I wanna talk about that
for a few minutes and how
it concerns you
and your marriage.
Uriah, the Hittite was
one of David’s mighty men,
he’s listed in 2 Samuel 23
as being a mighty man
of warfare and valor.
He’s mentioned 11 times
in the scriptures,
in Old Testament 11 ti –
Or 11 times combined in
the Old Testament
and he even shows up
in the New Testament.
He so impressed God he so got
the attention and eye of God
that God could not get over him.
This particular text was written
150 years after he was dead.
And when God spoke of David
He could not get over
somebody named, Uriah,
the Hittite.
He stood out to God.
Who was he?
In 2 Samuel 12:15 it says
this,”
And Nathan departed from
the house and God struck
the child, “Listen to this.
“of Uriah’s wife the he bore
unto David and
it was very sick.”
I’ll tell you and explain this,
but this is a pretty amazing
verse “the Lord struck the child
that Uriah’s wife bare,”
But wait a minute.
Uriah was dead in the story,
when this text was recorded.
And Uriah, David had had
murdered to cover up his sin.
And yet God said,
“he’s still Uriah’s wife.”
He had married Da –
She had married David.
David had had an affair
with her, had tried to get him
to come home and sleep
with his wife,
and I’ll explain it in a minute.
And so that he could say
that he – they had a oops
and she got pregnant.
And that would have covered up
his affair but it didn’t
work that way.
He wouldn’t go home,
he wouldn’t go to his wife
and so David puts him out
on the field to get killed,
and has the orders to pull back
and let him get killed.
And when the prophet goes
in this text to confront David
the Bible said under
the old covenant –
Thank God for mercy,
but the Bible said,
“the Lord struck the child that
Uriah’s wife,”
No David’s wife, Uriah’s wife.
Is it possible to be involved in
a marriage that’s recognized
on earth but ignored in Heaven?
I realize tonight
I’m on very thin ice,
but we need to be committed
to our marriages.
When we make a covenant
before God it is not
a play thing that is determined
by our emotions or our feelings.
But can I take a moment
to preach to younger couples.
The way that I was brought up
to approach marriage was,
this is not a try and see
play house and see how it goes
and if it doesn’t feel happy,
happy, goodie, goodie
all the time just trade
that one in for a newer version.
That is not in this Book.
And when you start eliminating
all the options
you’ll get serious about
getting in a place
and getting a good marriage
going on because for us
it’s one marriage.
One marriage.
And if you have started over
and this is new for you then
start in the marriage
that you are in,
begin to approach it like
I’m preaching right now that,
“The one I’m in is the only
one I’m going to be in.”
C’mon, and give me a big amen
right there.
Alright, let’s go.
Are you ready?
You ready to go?
I didn’t wanna preach this,
I got another one in here,
it’s brand new and I liked it,
but I’ll preach that whenever.
But this is what the Lord
said today when I was walking
in the woods.
When Jesus was asked about
divorce He took them back
to Genesis and He made
this comment,
He said – When Jesus was asked
by the Pharisees about divorce
He said, “Did He not –
Did He not make them one
flesh.”
Everybody say, “One Flesh.”
And then He starts quoting
the scripture.
“For is it not written that
a man his father
and his mother,”
That’s a public ceremony.
“and cleave to his wife,”
That is a joining together.
“and the two shall
become one flesh.”
That is the consummation
of the marriage.
The physical honeymoon night.
It is a covenant
that takes place.
“And they will be joined
together,” Jesus said.
And the word join means
to stick like glue.
No separation.
To stick like glue.
Watch what Jesus said.
Verse two: “The Pharisees came
and asked Him, “Is it lawful
for a man to divorce his
wife?”
Testing Him.
Cause there are people who are
going through things in this
room, all of us, and we must
eliminate that filthy word
called divorce.
It is not an option
in Jesus’ name.
There is a clause,
there is a fornication clause,
I believe it’s in Matthew 19:9,
if somebody has been unfaithful
then you can choose.
But it’s not necessarily what
ought to be done
and what has to be done.
What about grace?
That’s where grace
needs to come in.
Whew.
It’s tight, but it’s right.
[Laughter]
“The Pharisees came and said,
“Is it lawful for us to get
– you know some people are like
attorneys, the look
for loopholes.
When they read the Bible
they’re looking for –
they’re not looking for what
the text and the Spirit
of the verse is saying,
they’re looking for a loophole.
“How can I get outta this?”
‘The Pharisees came –
I can’t get past this verse.
“And the Pharisees came,
asked Him, “Is it lawful for
a man to divorce his wife?”
And He answered and said unto
them, “What did Moses command?”
They said, “Moses permitted
a man,” This is New Testament,
“Moses permitted a man
to write a certificate
of divorce,
and to dismiss her.”
And Jesus answered and said
unto them, “Because of
the hardness of your heart
he wrote you this precept.
But from the beginning,”
Here He goes again,
back to one.
Everybody say, “One.
One.
One.
One.”
He made them one.
Watch Him.
Watch Him.
This is Jesus, this isn’t –
this is God in the flesh.
This is Jesus.
This is how He feels
right now.
“And Jesus answered and said
unto them, “Because of the
hardness of your heart
he wrote you this precept.
But from the beginning,
of the creation, God made
them male and female.’”
That’s important.
“‘For this reason a man
shall leave his father and
mother and be joined to
his wife, and the,” Some –
Everybody say it out loud,
“and the two shall become
one flesh;’ so then they
are no longer two,
but one flesh.”
Verse nine: “Therefore,”
[Chuckling]
“Well, what if God didn’t
put us together?”
If you got married and
you said your vows,
God just put you together.
[Laughter]
“Therefore what God
has joined together,”
It might – you mighta met him
in the club or in the
Red Roof inn, in a bedroom,
I don’t know where you met him,
but when you said,
“God, will you please
bless this marriage,
we give it and we sign
the commit – we publicly
celebrate, we leave,
we cleave, we’re joined,
we’re one.”
God said, “It’s sanctified,
it’s Holy, it’s under the blood,
I surround it with angels
and I put my favor on it!”
Let’s see, is there any more?
Oh yeah, it does get –
Oh, I almost missed
this goodie part.
You’re not gon’ believe –
y’all would not come
to hear Jesus, you would not
come to hear Him preach
on marriage.
“Therefore what God has
joined together,”
In Holy matrimony.
“Let no man separate.”
Verse ten: “In the house
His disciples also asked Him
again about the same matter.”
Okay, now Je – They thought
Jesus would sweeten it up
a little bit, watch this.
“He said to them, “Whoever
divorces his wife and marries
another commits adultery
against her.
And if a woman divorces,”
Equal rights.
“And if a woman divorces
her husband and marries another,
he commits adultery.”
In one place it says,
“If the person marries
the person who –
[Sighs]
Did it not say that?
This is the Bible.
That it’s possible to be
in a marriage that’s
acknowledged on Earth
but ignored in Heaven?
God – Now I’m gon’
really mess you up.
Go to Matthew chapter one.
God could not get over Uriah.
Why?
Because he was so loyal, y’all.
He was so loyal.
That when David sent for him –
You know, he committed adultery,
he walked out on the balcony,
and he saw a UFO,
an unclothed female object,
taking a shower, or taking
a bath, I don’t guess they
had showers, but had a bath
and he got to lusting after.
And the Bible says,
when the kings went to war
he stayed home, he had civilian
spirit when he should have
had a warfare spirit.
He’s unconcerned,
let somebody else fight,
let somebody else be spiritual.
And he walked out on the balcony
and he saw that neighbor
taking a bath and he inquired
of her.
That’s what the scripture said,
“Who is she?”
Well, first-of-all I wanna say,
“Who are you?
You forgot, you’re married.
Why are you inquiring?”
You know, if you listen
to the Holy Spirit He’ll tell
you, “Don’t get – Don’t even
mess – Don’t even get
around that.
Don’t even flirt with that.
Don’t even.
Don’t even dare open a conver –
You go the opposite direction,
you stay away from that.
Don’t you – Does anybody still
believe in the conviction
of the Holy Spirit?
You have no business inquiring.
Going on Facebook,
“Well we – I wanna see how
my old lovers doing.”
I tell you they’re doing,
they’re looking for trouble.
Say, amen somebody.
And David sins for her,
commits adultery with her,
gets her pregnant,
they tell him that she’s
pregnant and he send for Uriah,
brings him back,
brings him back to the city,
during warfare,
when the war is going on out
in the battlefield.
And your Bible said,
Uriah was so loyal.
David didn’t care about
his loyalty, he was loyal
to his leader,
he was loyal to his king,
he was loyal to his comrades
that when he said,
“Hey, I’m going you
a leave of absence.
Just go home, you been such
a great warrior,
you’re one of my mighty men
and I just wanted you to –
You need a rest,
I’ll sent you back.
Go in and have a wonderful night
with your wife.”
And the Bible said,
“He went home and sat down
on the front porch and said,
“How can I do that?
How can I go in and
be with my wife
and sleep with my wife,
and have a wonderful night
when my buddies
are getting ripped and cut,
and fighting all of hell out
there, I can’t do that.”
I wanna ask you a question.
Where did he learn
that loyalty from?
Do you know that the Bible said
in 2 Samuel 23 that when David
was thirsty he said,
“Oh that I have a drink of water
from the well of Bethlehem.”
And the Bible said two
of his mighty men said,
“If my king wants a cup
of water –
And the Philistines controlled
that whole area.
“If my king wants a cup
of water, if that’s what
he just wishes he had I’m gon’
run through a troop and over
a wall and I’m gonna
get a cup – And they fought
their way to that well,
dipped the cup,
came back and took the cup
to the king.
And when the kind heard
what these mighty men –
We’re not told their name
but I got a sneaky –
My sermon, I can preach it
like I want to.
And I got a sneaky suspicion
one of them was Uriah!
Because he watched the king
who could have drank that water
but instead he said,
“I can’t drink it now –
I never understood this,
it would a ticked me off to be
– You know, fight all the way,
get a cup of water,
come back, risk my life,
and now he –
“No, I’m not gon’ drink it.”
But he was pouring it out
unto the Lord and there
was something about that
spirit of loyalty
that got in Uriah.
And when he could have went
into his wife he said,
“I can’t do it.”
And then David had a plan,
the next night he had a feast
and got him drunk.
Uriah had more convictions drunk
than most Christians
have sober.
Cause even when he was drunk
the next night he went home
and he thought,
“I ought to go in there,
my flesh wants to.”
But there was something in his
spirit that said, “Even if you
aren’t smart right now
I can keep you.”
I don’t know who I’m preaching
to but you’re real issue is you
need a fresh infilling
of the Holy Spirit,
because He can keep you
from things even…
when you don’t feel like
you’re in control.
And let me show you
what happened.
He was loyal on the battlefield,
he was loyal in the bedroom,
he was so loyal that –
There’s a picture,
I looked it up,
I meant to give it to them but
I didn’t know I was gon’
preach this till
I got up here, so.
But there’s a picture that —
It’s a very famous picture
of king David giving the letter
to Uriah to take to Joab
the commander of the armies
of Israel.
And it was a sealed letter,
your Bibles days this happened.
That the king, when he couldn’t
get him to sleep with his wife
to cover his tracks,
so that David wouldn’t look
like he had committed adultery
and gotten her pregnant,
he said, “I’mma have
to kill him.”
It started with a look,
just a look, and then
he kept on looking.
When the look voice is louder
than the don’t look voice
there’s – At some point
– It’s not a sin to look,
but then you need to turn
around and start pleading
the blood of Jesus and Lord —
And flee, get outta there.
Quit looking.
Not look and keep looking
and keep looking.
And the Bible said that Uriah
was called by David,
and David said, “Take this
letter to the front line
and give it to Joab
the commander of the army
of Israel.
In the letter –
Think about this.
In the letter was the
instructions, “Put Uriah
on the front line
and get him so far out on
the battlefield and then have
all of his comrades withdraw
and abandon him,
and leave him to die.”
And it was so – He knew –
Think about it.
He didn’t say, “Let me send
somebody else,
let me send Jonathan,
my son, with this message.”
He called Uriah to carry his
own death warrant,
because he knew he’s so loyal
he won’t read it.
He won’t break the seal,
he’s a loyal man.
And even through David,
the king didn’t notice it
God 150 years later said,
“I am so impressed with
that man, that when
I think of David,”
In 1 Kings 15.
“He was good in all of his ways
except for the matter –
150 years later God says,
“It still bugs me how he did
Uriah the Hittite.”
Now let me show you one thing
that’s gon’ bless you.
You ready?
Matthew chapter one,
and this is the Book of the
genealogy of Jesus, verse one.
Son of David,”
And they start going
Abraham begat Isaac,
Isaac begat Jacob,
and Jacob begat,”
Da-da-da-da-da-da-da.
There’s a lot of begetting
going on.
There needs to be a lot
of begetting going on, Amen.
Say Amen.
If you married it’s good
to have some begetting going on.
Obed begat Jesse,
and Jesse begat David the
king,”
Watch.
Watch.
“and David the king begat
Solomon by her who
had been the…
wife of Uriah”
It’s like God said,
“I’mma give Uriah credit.”
Not really he wasn’t really
in the blood line
but God said,
“He’s so loyal I’mma
put him in the bloodline.”
And you can have another year,
another year of frustrating
differed dreams.
You know, some people think,
“Well, you know, we gon’ cross
our fingers and hope things
get better.”
It’s not gon’ get better.
“We just gon’ see what
happens.”
It’s not gon’ get better!
But when you make up your mind,
“You are the only one I’ll
ever be married to
in this life.
This is it.
And so we can make each other
miserable or we can absolutely –
Not out of duty,
not out of a contract,
not out of a marriage license,
not out of -cause
we’re pastors and we
need to look, really,
really, really good
in front of the peo –
but because I love that woman
and she loves this man!”
Does that make sense?
It’s real!
C’mon, somebody.
It’s real!
It’s real!
It’s not perfect,
it’ll never be perfect
but it’s real!
You’re real uncomfortable.
You been uncomfortable
this whole sermon and some of
you are, “Oh God, what’s
he going to do next?”
I don’t care.
Do you understand that?
I don’t care what people think.
When I end this life I’mma
put my teeth in the little glass
and I’mma reach over and I’mma
grab Cherise’s hand
and I’mma say, “Gimme a sugar,
I’m going to Heaven.”
[Laughter and Applause]
Till death do us part.
Shout it!
“Till death do us – Shout it!
“Till we are one flesh!”
Shout it!
C’mon get up on your feet!
We are one flesh!
Say, “God’s gonna have
a godly seed, in our house,
in our children and our children
– They will not grow up
without dad, without mom.
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>> As you listened
to this program today,
I really believe that the
Holy Spirit knows how to
direct a sermon and a message
right to the area of your life,
and this is so important,
at the right time.
So, today I believe God
brought you and I together,
and I want to pray for you
and your family.
Maybe you’re watching me
right now,
there’s no doubt about it,
someone’s watching me right now
and you desperately need
a change in your life,
and what I just preached
has touched your heart,
and you’re on the brink
of a miracle called salvation.
Forgiveness, mercy, and grace.
Open up your heart,
pray this prayer with me.
Say, “Jesus.”
Just say those words.
“Jesus, I receive you
as my Lord and Savior.
Wash me and cleanse me,
forgive me, and restore
and renew me.
Thank you for mercy,
thank you for grace,
thank you for the love of God
that will never let us go.
I receive that love,
that forgiveness
in Jesus’ mighty name.”
Amen and amen.
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