Have you ever been passing someone in the hallway and they have asked, ” How are you?” And you reply, “Fine, and you?” In reality, you may have a terrible headache, or you may be facing some extreme battle at home but you say, “Fine, how are you?” The exchange of casual pleasantries may be good manners, but when it comes to matters of the heart you can’t pretend. As you walk closer to Christ you find yourself not willing to settle for less — but rather more of Him. And it is that desire that causes us to “Refuse to Pretend.”
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the following program is sponsored by friends and partners of Kingdom collection coming up on Kingdom connection we’re not to be a bunch of fakie pretenders don’t ever mention Jesus all week long or open a Bible or spend any time in prayer but then come to church and pretend that’s Leah but let me tell you where rachel is it’s when you’re with him when you love him when you’re into this book when you’re spending time in prayer it’s not a pretending thing it’s a contending for the faith that God is looking for let Jesus have his way in your life refused to pretend now on Kingdom connection I want to speak today on refuse to pretend refuse to pretend the Bible said that Jacob loved Rachel he worked seven years to get to marry this girl and the scripture said it seemed unto him but a few days for the love that he had for her I mean that’s love when you can work seven years for the girl that you’re in love with and it felt like it was just a few days to him because his love was so great the sacrifice was almost insignificant of seven years of his life our experience with God should be one of continual ongoing love when you’re in love with God whatever you have to do for God is but a small thing because you love him sometimes we get to thinking that we’re sacrificing but if you really love God it’s a it becomes just a small thing he said it was like when you he was so in love with Rachel that serving seven years was like a small few days of his life the only way to be effective for God is to fall in love with God then you don’t see the sacrifices because you love him so much we ought to give our ties and not see it as a sacrifice but we do it cause we love him we ought to serve in the church and not see it as some big sacrifice that we showed up today and we came to church but we should see it as because I love him this is just a small thing for me to get up and come serve and worship and work and build the kingdom of God and when you really love him it’s a small thing to the service and the sacrifice too fast to pray to read the Bible I love to pray I love to read the Bible I love to come to church I love to preach I have always loved it and I I still love it today because when you love God then the sacrifices are not the big deal it’s your love and it’s about a small thing to work for God to give to God to do all that I can for God when you really love God like you ought to love him the problem with a lot of people who don’t get it and they don’t ever sacrifice under God is they don’t love God if you don’t if you don’t sacrifice much then it’s because you don’t love him because when you love him your sacrifice is but a small thing because he’s so good and I love him so much that’s how Jacob was something got ahold of Jacob when he saw Rachel I mean that little fat angel with those wings called Cupid took his bow and Arum and he made a direct hit into the heart of Jacob he was walking around starry-eyed hearing birds chirping dizzy in his head head over heels floating on air he was in love some of you don’t know what I’m talking about I’m listening to air supply on his iPod this man had it bad he had it bad Rachel in this story represents the ultimate experience the pursued dream the the desired vision all that is sought after in our heart that first love that experience with Jesus Christ it represents that desire dream that thing that that that made your heart pity patty and made you you hear the birds chirp and feel alive that’s what it represents the fulfilled vision leah is less there are two women in the story leah the older sister and then there’s Rachael who the Bible said was beautifully is less but Rachel Rachel is best Leah is religion but rachel is relationship Leah is survival just living with someone but rachel is revival leah was the one who was shoved on Jacob and tricked and put in her bed one night when he partied at his wedding and and the dad swapped the women out and and and he woke up the next day to a surprise it wasn’t Rachel it was Leah she was unwanted she was undeserved and undesired the question that I have for you today is will you live with Leah the less or will you live and believe for Rachel the best your first love Laban asked Jacob tell me what your wages will be name your payday tell me what you want it what you want to be paid see your won’t with God your walk in your life and your family and your marriage it will ultimately be what you want it to be you can settle for a Leah or you can have the ultimate that God has for you which is Rachel and the problem is we pretend that Leah is Rachel and just get settled and the enemy switches us out unless you love Rachel enough that you decide you will not settle for living with Leah refuse to pretend refused refused to become religious something happened to Jacob when the Sun came up the Bible said that he woke up he woke up to the fact that he had been cheated he had been shortchanged instead of being with Rachel all he had was Leah she was not the one that he loved and what you’ve settled for now is not what you were originally in love with and if you don’t watch it you just settle in your walk with God you just settle in your marriage you just settle in your life in your dream you just settle because it’s kind of hard and it gets difficult and you know that least I know what no that is not God’s will for us to live with Leah when we love Rachel I’m going to tell you why it’s so easy to settle for Leah because Leah is cheaper than Rachel but rachel is worth the price if you want Rachel mr. Jacob it’ll cost you seven more years than you had to pay for Leah so you had to pay seven years and I fooled you and you could settle here because Leah is cheaper I’m saying to you that it’s people I hear it all the time it’s too much trouble to reach from my dream it’s too much trouble to go for a deep passionate relationship with God is too much trouble to have a great marriage and hold your family together but I’m telling you it may be more that you have to do but God says don’t settle for the cheaper if you will set your own wages you decide notice that God doesn’t decide what kind of marriage you’re going to have you do God doesn’t decide what kind of relationship you’re going to have with him you do God doesn’t decide whether you’re going to get free from drugs and alcoholism and finally become the person that God said you could be no he doesn’t decide it you do and you can settle with Leah you can settle in mediocrity you can settle in lukewarmness or you can say no this is not Rachel I don’t love you I know there’s something greater I need you to give God a praise right there if you know I’m preaching the truth refused to say refused to settle it’s like the cartoon of the guy the little kid who took his bow and arrow out and he was target practicing and here’s how he would practice and this is how some people are he would take his bow and arrow and shoot it into the wall and then he’d walk over with a magic marker and draw a big circle around wherever the arrow landed and make wherever the arrow hit his bull’s eye and then he would shoot it again and so every it’s kind of hard to miss when you got that kind of attitude I’m telling you that if you don’t have a target you don’t know how you’re doing if you don’t have something you’re aiming at you don’t know where you’re going you don’t know how close you are or how far off you are and we don’t have when we don’t have nothing to shoot for and nothing to aim for and nothing to motivate us then we won’t ever ever hit the bull’s eye we all need something to go for we all need something to reach for to go after we all need something on the wall with the bullseye so that we don’t go around in life if you’re not careful you just draw the circle wherever you are and say this is it but this is not it it’s a great great danger I’m afraid too many of us have just thrown the target around right where we are when God says this is not Rachel I’ve got greater things for you I’m a bigger God than you think I am tell you I refuse to settle for Lea as a church when I know God has a Rachel I’m not going to take cross eyed Lea when I can have beautiful gorgeous Rachel and folks do you hear me we’re headed somewhere and we’re not we’re not going to pretend maybe maybe I’m the only one that feels this way but I’m telling you if you’ve ever had that first love strike your heart you and you fall into a little mediocre kind of along with Leah religion just do in church it is a miserable place I’m not satisfied with Leah I want Rachel I want revival I want the Holy Spirit moving I want God in our families I want God in our lives I want him to be the center of everything take a moment and give God a praise if you refuse to pretend come on to stir yourself up I’m not going to pretend I’m gonna contend see the great danger that Jacob had was instead of facing reality he could have pretended that leah was Rachel but the Bible said we’re not to be pretenders were to be contenders Jude chapter one said we are to contend for the faith that was once given to us we’re not to pretend that we have the power of the Spirit and we’re Christians and we have a wonderful marriage and we’re all hi hello hi how are you we’re not to be a bunch of fakie pretenders that don’t ever mention Jesus all week long or open a Bible or spend any time in prayer but then come to church and pretend that’s Leah but let me tell you where rachel is it’s when you’re with him when you love him when you’re into this book when you’re spending time in prayer it’s not a pretending thing it’s a contending for the faith that God is looking for I’m telling you that spirit of Leah will get on you and the enemy will do a smooth switch it’s happened two marriages and it’s happened to people spiritually we’re smooth switch intoxicated with the world while we’re intoxicated with this that and the other the enemy robs our soul our first love and gives us a substitute that does not satisfy that does not fulfill that leaves us empty and cold and dry a lot of folks are pretending they’ll look you in the face and say nothing’s changed I still love the Lord but I’ll remember revivals I remember church services or the Holy Spirit and you do has come upon me tears would flow at intimacy with Jesus we can become a bunch of pretenders folks right here on the brink of the coming of the Lord we can become a bunch of pretenders who are intoxicated with the world and the enemy switched us out we’ve lost our first love when I when I started preaching I loved Jesus with all of my heart I love this church with all of my heart I love the Word of God and the work of God with all my heart while I was on my sickbed the Holy Spirit began to whisper to me don’t you settle for Leah you know too much you’ve experienced too much you felt too much and people will say it’s fine everything’s great the building’s packed out people are coming from everywhere look at the blessings look at the blessings I don’t care about any of that yes that’s messed up Leah you’ve ever been in one good Holy Ghost service with a power of God came on you and lifted every burden and you felt suddenly the awesome holy presence of God unless you’ve experienced that you don’t know what I’m talking about and I have come too far to become a pretender and I don’t care what the religious world thinks about me I could care less I want a church that is in love with Jesus that breeze and eats and leaves Jesus not just on Sunday but I’m talking about every day of our life we honor healed self-deception is very real there’s the children’s story that is told of the emperor who paid great wages to the con artists designer to make him the most beautiful robe in this con artists made an imaginary robe for the king that he said quote only the wise and the noble can see it and so when he brought it in it was nothing but he said here it is king and the king was so full of ego and pride that he looked at it and he said oh it’s beautiful then he called in all of the people around him and asked them what do you think about it and the con artist is standing there saying only the wise can see it and the noble they all agreed it’s incredible we’ve never seen anything like it so there was a parade and all the King put on the only clothes he had on was that robe and some little kid who wasn’t into politics when trying to get a position looked up and started laughing and said ha ha he hasn’t got anything on you hear me self-deception I’m closing but we hear a lot about compromise and we only think of compromise in terms of you know our standards of compromising our standards and our convictions what about compromising your dreams what about compromising happy godly homes for the sick trade out that the 21st century gives us homes where there’s anger and violence addiction drunkenness and vulgarity and filth divorce hatred and unforgiveness and bitterness all in a family what about compromising that that is not the Rachael family that God has for me for you that we compromise what about compromising our children what about compromising our personal revival with God refuse to pretend because whatever you’re happy and content with you will have so if you’re happy and content with a mediocre walk with God come into church on Sunday and you’re not one bit different and you’ll walk right out of here and spew the Bible said we can’t bless God with our words and turn around and curse me in if you’re content with that then that’s what you will have whatever you’re happy and content with you will have but if inside of you something says I yearn for what revelation three said return to your first love I would that you were cold or you were hot but if you’re lukewarm I’ll spew you out of my mouth return to your first love are you going to be a pretender or a contender I will fight for the dream God has given me I will fight for my first love because I love Jesus I will fight for my family in my marriage I refuse to be a pretender God make us contenders I believe today’s program is speaking to your heart this message of not settling of contending for revival contending for the dream that God has put in your heart you can’t settle you have to stay after you have to not pretend but contend for the faith and for the miracle that God has for your life I believe somebody’s contending right now I believe somebody saying Lord I want what you what you’ve placed in my heart and I’ve been settling and I’m ready for a new level father I pray right now for people watching this telecast I pray for those suffering in their bodies sick that you would heal them those that are lonely discouraged going through a tough season I pray for your hand to blessing and help in the time of trouble and if you don’t know Jesus Christ as your Savior invite them in say Lord come into my heart today in Jesus name just pray that prayer right where you are all all it takes is that heart that’s open and Jesus will come and then let us know what’s happening in your life call or go online and tell us what the Lord has done for you today we love to hear from you and our closing moments together I want to say to all of the people in Oklahoma and all of the people who are suffering we’ve got so many partners and friends and we know ministries there that our heart and our prayer is with you and we as a ministry a rallying right now as a matter of fact we already have people there we’re partnering with a wonderful ministry Christian ministry called God’s pit crew we’re sending five truckloads of food and supplies diapers all kinds of things that will help the people get through this crisis time they’ve got chainsaws they’ve got front loaders these are five 18-wheeler trucks that we’ve already sponsored to go in because of your support in your help number one we need to be praying for the people in Oklahoma let’s pray for them let’s pray for those devastated and grieving let’s pray for those who’ve lost everything and then number two let’s put let’s put love in action let’s uh let’s get behind wonderful ministries like we’re partnering with with God’s pit crew and let’s let people know you know that we love them in a tangible way and so that’s why we’ve already given the resources to send five truckloads of food and supplies in and I’m asking you today to number one help us pray and pray for us as a ministry that we can be effective in what we’re trying to do a number two consider what you can do financially to help you know make these trucks save and restore lives so today we thank you for that consider that go online by the way and see more you can learn more about what we’re doing and we know that you know these are ministries that are making a difference and they will do what they say right there and help people restore their lives thank you pray for us we’re praying for you we’ll see you next time right here on Kingdom connection we each have an assignment a unique role to play but you don’t decide your path you discover it this month for your gift of any amount you can receive life on purpose a new CD series with a study guide that will inspire you to follow your dreams explore your god-given identity and elevate your leadership the truth is when God is going to use you greatly he’ll put you through a season of loneliness where his voice is the voice that you learn to hear more than any other voice and we’re afraid of being different we’re afraid of being different but it’s the uniqueness that is your 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