In Week 6 of the Damaged but Not Destroyed Series, Pastor Mike highlights the pivotal role that our patterns play in shaping our future. He guides us in identifying the destructive sin cycles or patterns that often lead to a product inconsistent with God’s promises. However, we are reminded that God has given us the power to transform these patterns. As Jacob wrestled with God, we know that confronting these patterns might require a struggle. Yet, this wrestling can ultimately lead to experiencing God’s blessings and change the trajectory of our future. The message encourages us to acknowledge the patterns in our lives, encouraging us to align with God’s unchanging patterns, which always yield a great reward. Scripture References: James 1:12-15 NLT Philippians 2:13 NLT Genesis 32:22-32 NLT Romans 12:2 NIV 00:00 – Intro 02:54 – James chapter 1 verses 12 through 15 NLT 09:00 – Philippians chapter 2 verse 13 NLT 12:34 – The pattern that starts with you will always end with problems 14:15 – The pattern that starts with God will always end with power 26:15 – If you don’t like the music of your life, you have to change the beat 27:12 – What’s not transformed is transferred 32:12 – It’s not the God’s promise ISN’T working. It’s that your pattern IS working 47:45 – Romans chapter 12 verse 2 NIV 48:40 – How do you change a pattern? 1. Take the pattern (acknowledge what is) 50:43 – How do you change a pattern? 2. Break the pattern (abandon what it was) 51:42 – How do you change a pattern? 3. Make the pattern (arrange what you desire it to be) 52:44 – How do you change a pattern? 4. Shake the pattern (available for edits from God) 55:32 – How do you change a pattern? 5. Bake the pattern (allow time and fire) Join Transformation Church for our live Sunday experience. Plug into community, engage in live worship with Transformation Worship, & hear a powerful word from God. ABOUT US We Exist to REPRESENT God to the lost & found for Transformation in Christ. This is the vision of Transformation Church, led by Pastor Michael Todd and based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. NEXT STEPS Have you made the decision to follow Jesus? Fill out the form below so we can help you on your journey toward Transformation in Christ: http://transformchurch.us/saved
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hi my name is Charles and I serve here
at Transformation Church as one of the
executive pastors and I want to take a
moment before we jump into the message
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joining us enjoy the best today I hope
it blesses you this series I don’t know
if y’all noticed that my preaching a
little different since I’ve come back
from
sabatical if you checked in with me
there’s another level of
dominion there’s another level of
authority I’m nine years almost into
pastoring this church I’m not guessing
no
more who comes who leaves really don’t
matter I’m called so when I stand up
here there’s another level of authority
and anointing that I’m standing with
right now that I’ll be honest in years
prior I was trying to convince people of
what I knew now I’m just going to tell
you if you believe it or not it’s on you
but I have proof in my life in areas
that don’t get posted on
Instagram that the principles of God
everybody say they work they you done
tried everything you out here believing
scammers on Instagram sending them1 1999
a month to figure out some of y’all in
stuff and you you forgot you was in it
you’ve been in it since
2020 can’t find your money watching
these people trying to get motivated to
do what the principles of God if you
just actually did them it would produce
in your life and so today as we are in a
series about being damaged but not
destroyed I want to teach you how to go
from trauma to Triumph today because
we’ve talked about our damage a lot
we’ve talked about what we’ve gone
through we’ve made a decision that we
are going to deal with our issues some
of you I want to I want to stop for
everybody who’s made a therapy
appointment I want to right now give it
up for you right now oh y’all can do
better than that I know the guilt is
setting in for some people who said they
were but we going to thank
God at this church we believe in therapy
and theology
we believe in prayer and going to a
practice we believe that it starts in an
encounter with God at the altar but many
times it’s fleshed out in communication
through
counseling and um today I’m going to
give you practical handles of how to
take some steps to go from trauma to
Triumph and um I’m going to read h a
passage of scripture if you have your
Bibles James
1:12 we are in week six of of a series
called damage but not destroy y’all it’s
getting gooder and gooder and better and
better James chapter 1 verse2 God
blesses those who patiently endure
testing and
Temptation somebody should shout right
there no no no not out of
ignorance shout because this last season
you’ve endured testing and Temptation
the reward of that is that God blesses
you if that’s the season you’ve been in
go ahead and give God praise right there
okay so after you’ve endured testing and
Temptation afterward They will receive
the crown of life that God has promised
to those who love him and remember when
you are being tempted do not say God is
tempting me stop sending me them
thoughts
Lord stop letting that scroll up on my
Instagram God is temp
me God is never tempting you to do wrong
and he never tempts anyone else but let
me tell you where Temptation comes from
Temptation comes from our own
desires which entice us and drag us away
these desires have a baby and they give
birth to sinful actions and When sin is
allowed
to live in
grow it gives birth to
death when I was looking at this
scripture I saw the cycle of
sin and and and what we have to do to
disarm the enemy’s power in our life is
understand our opponent if you’ve ever
played a sport the first thing you need
to know is who we
playing cuz depending on who’s on the
other side of the court or the field it
deter determines how I’m going to
approach this
battle and most of us come at the enemy
like he’s playing
fair but the word of God gives us his
Playbook he has no new
schemes so let me teach you the enemies
or the opposition’s play so you can
learn it and you can work against it
with understanding so did you see how
all of us get played by sin it’s a cycle
or you could say it’s a
pattern your
desire
actions
growth death put it on the screen cuz
son of them looking at me this is what
the scripture just
said your
desires get together and birth sinful
actions your sinful actions have a baby
and what okay I’m gonna read the
scripture to you one more time and I
want I I want you to listen to it very
slowly Temptation comes from our
own
desires you never do anything that you
didn’t somewhere deep down desire to
do the devil didn’t make you do it he
hyped you up to do
it the devil been after me no no no he’s
just been encouraging you in what was
already
there if it wasn’t in there he wouldn’t
have nothing to help
grow the reason you’re enraged is
because there’s somewhere in there that
that anger has been able to fester and
what God is saying is your desires
produce actions which if they’re allowed
to grow it produces
death um
if I understand the pattern of the devil
I can interrupt his
pattern okay
okay I want to be in a relationship
now my
desire and I’ve been focusing on that
desire and compare myself to other
people who have what I think that I
desire
and it it’s coming up to my birthday and
I don’t want to be
alone for my
birthday even if I have to be a side
chick so so I’ll I’ll lower my
standard to fill
something and we didn’t do it many times
but just just once or twice a
week that that that grew into now I’m
his sneaky
link some of y’all like Jen sneaky link
what is that an attachment on an
email it it it it’s an attachment all
right it’s called a soul
[Applause]
tie and and you’re okay now and and in
in in in almost ful to know that he
doesn’t claim you but y’all have a
secret
relationship and it’s able to grow until
the point where it kills the desire in
you death to live in
Purity this is the everybody say cycle
cyc or it’s the everybody say pattern
P but if the devil has a
pattern that means that our
God as well has a pattern and it’s just
a little different different but it
leads to a whole another place
Philippians 213 my favorite scripture
remember the death and sin cycle starts
with your desire but Philippians 2:13
says for God is working in
you giving you the
desire and the power to do what pleases
him so the next pattern that we need to
learn is God’s
desire
Godly actions those grow and it leads to
everybody shout at me life it’s why the
Bible says that the son of man came that
we might have life and life to the full
but the thing that you have to realize
is the right pattern and the wrong
pattern are all based on who starts the
pattern so if you start the pattern at
four years old trying to self soothe
because you you weren’t seen by your
parents you continue that pattern that
leads to actions that lead to growth
that lead to death and now you’re 48
years old and you can’t figure out why
this pattern has taken you from where
you really want to be to where you never
thought you would
be it’s the source of who started the
pattern and today I’m asking every
person under the sound of my voice is to
examine every pattern in your life and
ask yourself who started
it did I start it for
protection did I start it to feel love
did I start it to
survive all patterns were not started
out of an evil
Place some of us hit the
weed to to survive all the abuse that
was happening in our household okay
y’all want to be fake today you judging
people about the end result of death in
their
life but some people
started because they were just trying to
survive nobody who’s a thug wanted to be
a
thug when you don’t know where your next
meal is coming
from you then desire to eat and then
might make you shank
somebody is it right
no but that’s what sin
is it is trying to feel a legitimate
desire in an illegitimate
way so every person who’s judgy right
now even being
religious is some of your way of trying
to make your yourself feel better about
yourself cuz nobody ever affirmed you
well I’mma learn more than everybody
else what does 1 Thessalonians 6:19 say
I don’t
know but you’re
mean and the truth of the matter is
whatever word you have there’s no fruit
in your life I don’t want to be around
you and somehow you go home making
comments about people thinking you’re
better than
them you started that P
patter you never see Jesus doing that
okay let me
stop write this down the pattern that
starts with you will always end with
problems the pattern that starts with
you will always end with problem I need
you to think about how you handle
conflict when did you start going off
like
that and only three people have seen it
and it’s usually the three people you
love the
most some of you husbands would never
treat your co-workers like you treat
your
[Applause]
wife and some of you wives check up on
your friends more than you check up on
your
husband them claps
is
some of you talk to your children in
ways that you despised being talked
to but why does it come out of you so
freely
now cuz it is a
pattern and because you never got any
other
language to
communicate cuz I said so you used to
hate when your parents said cuz I said
so you used to have whole debates at
with your your friends like that’s so
dumb that my parents say because I said
so give me a reason and now you at the
same place emotionally
drained with no time and energy for the
seeds you prayed for God to give
you and the pattern hasn’t
broken the pattern that starts with you
will always end with problems but the
pattern that starts with God will always
end in
power cuz that scripture said he will
give you the desire and the
power to do what pleases him that means
many of us need to go and confront not
our
problems the problems are a byproduct of
the
pattern oh my
God I can tell you where your life is
and where it is going not by the
problems you’re facing right now but by
the patterns that created those problem
problems and many of us have been living
in problemsolving mode and you should be
in pattern solving
mode oh my gosh I am talking to you
because every time you get hot and
bothered what are you
watching it just seems to be for some
reason after you watch that one show on
HBO that’s so artistically enthusiastic
but it got a few scenes in there that’ll
arouse
the dog in
you come on y’all and you watching it
like I’m I’m
good I mean okay all right that’s what
they did in the medieval times
okay I feel
that and you watching ESPN and can’t go
to
sleep it’s a P step back and just ask
yourself is the problem my
pattern cuz we’re talking about dealing
with our damage we can get healed and be
right back in
it delivered and right back in it went
to therapy and right back in it not
because we didn’t address the problem
cuz we did not address the
pattern I’m I feel my help coming
[Applause]
on
today
I want to let you know something this is
the title of my
sermon patterns that
prophesy everybody want a prophetic
words God tell
me where I’m going to be next year 2024
I want
more 2024 it’s going to be the year of
an Open Door
2024 I’m actually going to have abs in
my
core not if you don’t check the
pattern your patterns are prophesying
your
future don’t go stand in a line and pay
for Miracle
Water cuz I can prophesy to you right
now show me your bank
account I’ll tell you you’ll be broke
next
year because of the pattern of spending
you
have and God can give you an influx of
resources and just give you enough time
and you’ll be Louie Gucci and big screen
TV
down and your pattern will end you back
up in the same place that you are right
now your pattern is
prophetic where’s my marriage going to
be jacked up
cuz y’all don’t
talk your business partners you make
sure that the accounts are settled and
the kids
eat and that y’all lie about going on
date nights but you’re just on your
phone the whole
time but the the
pattern is killing your
progress and the truth of the matter is
the church we do a good job at telling
people where their purpose is going to
be and how they’re going to go to this
place and the palace and the
promises we need more message about the
patterns cuz God can use you
greatly and it still be your
patterns that Jack you up this ain’t in
my notes but it’s coming to my heart
Samson strongest man alive but had a
pattern of laying with women that he
knew was trying to kill him
he thought he was strong enough to reach
purpose and still play with the
pattern and some of y’all have been in
this same place where God has gifted you
he’s giving you power and strength in an
area and you still playing with patterns
that are going to end up taking your
sight and killing you in the end
o patterns
are
prophetic I thought about what I could
do to show y’all the power of patterns
everybody shouted me
patterns the power of patterns and so I
decided my example today I’m going to go
to the studio is it okay if I break the
pattern of our regular Sunday service
and I do something different right now I
said is it okay okay so I’mma cameraman
follow me I’m going go to the studio
real quick most of y’all know that I
used to be a music producer before God
asked me to be a pastor and one of the
things that we have to understand man
I’m so glad you’re here today one of the
things that I’m so glad you’re here
today one of the things you got to
understand what’s up big daddy you all
right hey you fly I like you the glasses
yes one of the things that we have to do
when you’re doing music production as
you have to be concerned about everybody
shout at me patterns P I love y’all
thank y’all so much for coming today so
many people make music based off of
patterns it’s like 1 2 3 3 4 it’s 1 2 3
1 2 3 there’s different patterns that we
have and so I’m going to go into the
studio right now and uh what’s up jav
you good baby yes sir all right let me
get set up they got me a little a little
setup back here right now can y’all hear
me out
there oh no no I need y’all to Make Some
Noise can y’all hear me out there I got
to make sure okay cool cool cool cool so
I’m in the studio right now with hav and
uh let me
see I like that
I’mma just build the basic
pattern I like
that
whoa
oo I like that all right let’s just
build a basic pattern real
quick y’all feel that
oh okay so right here uhoh we took the
lights out this
m like like like this is a basic pattern
and some of y’all groov into this
pattern right here I see you right there
and then I can add to
[Music]
it but the truth about this pattern is
it set it will not change until somebody
puts their hands on what is going to
continue to stay the same 15 minutes
from now if I don’t put my hands on this
pattern it will prophesy the
future everything that you do and every
place that you are that you Advocate and
don’t let God through you put your hands
on it stays the same and people can be
grooving to a beat that will not produce
the full manifestation of what God wants
to do in your life I’m preaching this
thing right now some of you need to
decide today that it’s not the beat that
it’s the problem it’s that I have not
put my hands on the pattern and I
believe that God is going to tell some
of y’all it’s time to remix your life
it’s time to throw some stuff in
[Music]
there oh I like
that some of y’all better jam with me
let’s turn the 808 on let’s
go
woo I like it do you see how it’s coming
alive the music is changing right now
it’s because I am beginning to work on
the pattern oh I feel this thing let’s
break it down just a little bit let’s go
like
this some of y’all used to be in a club
stop acting brand new you like
that but this is a beautiful thing what
if there’s some things in my life that I
don’t need to get rid of I just need to
filter them listen to this I can
filter the noise needs to be turned
down W I feel like playing a little
bit just give me a
second w
[Music]
[Applause]
[Music]
yeah God changing the pattern I feel
that hey I need everybody to do me a set
do me a favor if you’re in the room or
if you’re in your house I need you to
stand up right now and we going to
change the pattern I need you to turn up
everybody clap your can
like hey I’m coming out there I need you
to
party
yo let’s
go let’s go everybody everybody
everybody like
oh let’s go everybody real quick like we
breaking the pattern of serving let’s go
I
[Music]
W just one more time you say
overflow hey I love this
day
where
Hey sing
overflow hey will y’all give God some
praise right
now okay sit
down
the power of that whole
moment was in the
pattern and until I put my hand on the
pattern until I put my creativity around
the pattern okay until I put knowledge
around
the everything stayed the
same
take this off real
quick it’s not gonna ruin the
message there we go we got it okay the
power is in the I said the power is in
the the power is in the if you don’t
like the music of your
life you have to change the
beat you want a different tempo
you want to go at a pace that your
family can go
at you you you you you want to you want
to be able to actually have margin
enough to love your
neighbor some of us are just too busy to
love our neighbor got soccer practice I
got lacrosse practice I have my hair to
get done every Tuesday I have a nail
appointment every Thursday because I
have to do the Instagram pose of me
holding my steering
wheel
and you’ve been to that nail tech 200
times and they don’t even know you love
God it’s time to
check the pattern cuz what’s not
transformed is
transferred your patterns watch this are
going to be given to your children watch
this good me
pressed down shaken together and running
over will men and women put in their
children’s lap what they did not deal
with we always want to use it when it’s
time for
offering it’s also used when it’s time
for
offense the way you get offended good
measure press down shakeing together and
running over this is why we have to
address patterns that
prophesy this next year don’t ask God to
give you a prophetic word ask him to
show you your
patterns
okay okay y’all don’t believe me and the
reason you don’t believe me is because
like where’s the word Pastor Mike show
me in the Bible that your patterns
prophesy let’s talk to
Abraham cuz Abraham had many sons and
many sons had oh oh and I am and so are
you hey so let’s all pra the Lord right
let y’all are married y’all went to the
same Youth Camp I
did but what was the first part of that
Father
Abraham had
Minis
and
many sons
had what Father Abraham
had so the sons had no say in coming
into the world Father Abraham he had
many sons that that didn’t but the
sons also had what Father Abraham
had and we talk about it we had Faith
guess what what else Abraham had he had
a lying
problem I got to run through this quick
Abraham lied about Sarah being his
wife he was scared and I don’t know what
kind of fine Sarah was but she was so
she might be Natalie T fine she was so
fine that he was like I got to tell them
you’re my sister cuz they might kill me
to get to you and they walked into the
palace he was like this my sister
Sarai and he lied to
pharaoh to save himself out of fear and
he thought it was a little white lie but
Father Abraham had many sons and many
sons had lying from Father
Abraham cuz Isaac was his
son and Isaac did the same thing in
lying and he even did it in the same t
he wasn’t even to escape he wasn’t even
able to escape the proximity that thing
was so strong that the lying in him
happened at the same place the same
way but Isaac had many
sons and many sons had Isaac lying in
them cuz y’all remember Esau and Jacob
right the pattern that Abraham
started prophesied for
generations and now literally his son
Jacob says I’m not even going to lie to
somebody outside of my family I’mma lie
to my brother who is my
twin the person who’s supposed to be
closest to me I’mma deceive
him and he learned it
the seed was in him from his father
Isaac but it was nurtured by his
manipulated Mama y’all got to read the
Bible what happens when you get the crap
from both
sides what happens when your mom’s side
of the family are liars and
manipulators and your dad’s side of the
family have addictions and
secrets and nobody stands up and deals
with it
and you supposed to just be
good it’s a miracle you here
today because patterns
prophesy write this down it’s not that
God’s promise isn’t working it’s that
your pattern is
working
it’s not that the promises of God are
not working his promises are working but
guess what else is
working your
patterns and so when God blesses you
with
more you have a pattern of giving up
what God blesses you to people you feel
guilty
around so God keeps blessing you you
don’t stew it over it and y’all all be
broke
together and I just feel like I can’t
lead a
hood I put the team on my back you need
a savings account to put the team on
your
back you trying to help other people
with their
relationships and the time you talking
to LEL B Bay and LEL Ray Ray you should
shut up and go to counseling with your
spouse
okay cuz your pattern is working too so
Pastor Mike all right I know I need to
check my pattern how do I change my
pattern I’m glad you
ask because how did Jacob get his
pattern changed does anybody
remember y’all don’t read your Bible
does anybody
remember how Jacob got his pattern
changed this is Abraham Isaac Jacob all
liars Liars Liars Liars Liars how does
the pattern change he wrestles with
God uhoh that means anytime you
wrestle one person wants one
thing and the other person wants another
thing anytime you’re wrestling with God
it’s a metaphor for saying you want it
to be this
way and he wants it to be this way and
we fight with God over who’s going to
get pinned
down and you know the thing that most of
us wrestle with is when God ask us for
our
patterns and we kind of like well Lord
this has been with me my whole life it’s
kind of how I do my
thing this is kind of my regular mode of
operation I get in a relationship for
about three weeks it starts to go good I
self- sabotage CU I think they’re gonna
find out who I really
am and then
it repeats
itself God God says will you will you
let me change your pattern let’s this is
what I feel like God saying let’s
wrestle not wrestle country Oklahoma
let’s
wrestle like
that I’m talking about people who like
go bass fishing uh what was it what is
not bass fishing what is it uh what is
it noodling they these are the type of
people that put the hand in a fish’s
mouth and let L Ass Like That
I feel like God’s asking all of us if
you really want your damage to no longer
have you we’re going to have to check
your patterns and I’m ready to fight you
over your
patterns let’s
wrestle let’s see who wins Jacob comes
out of this wrestling match with
God it says his knots
his hip out of socket cuz when you
wrestle with God you going to feel
it he’s not going to let you think that
you can come like you’re Almighty and
you’re not going to walk away from the
wrestle what you been doing Jacob you
know me and God
[Applause]
uh but Jacob had the presence of mind to
say even though watch this I’m going to
walk out of this thing with a and I’m
not going to
win I I’m going stay in this
until you bless
me now I just want to let you know that
the blessing was not that my my hip
didn’t look like it got jacked up for
the rest of Jacob’s
life you know what the real blessing
was that his name was
changed
he said because you decided to wrestle
with me over your
patterns you have proof that I beat that
[Applause]
uh but now I’m going to change the the
the pattern when you wake up and you
walk out everybody calls you
Jacob which literally means heel Grabber
somebody that will manipulate and bring
down he said I’m going to change your
name and now your name is
Israel so every time there is nothing
more pattern changing than somebody
changing your whole
name I mean imagine if your name is
Shirley and tomorrow everybody starts
calling you
Fantasia that would be a change of
pattern and God says I’m the only one
one that if you give me your patterns
I’ll
change your name Pastor Mike make it
practical all right I’mma show you
because everybody wants the promise but
I’mma show you your patterns put it up
on the screen for me because I want this
to be very practical we have patterns
that prophesy and I’m going to show you
how we can change this thing we have a
pattern we have the product of our
pattern and then we have a promise I
literally could do 40 of these but what
I want you to do this week is I want you
to write this chart down and I want you
to make it personal for you I don’t want
you to just come here and hear me speak
on Sunday be like that was good it’s not
good unless it works in your life and so
I need you to change the pattern maybe
this week you don’t just
listen maybe this week you actually
follow up with meditation around God
what are you trying to say to me through
this message so I want everybody to do
this exercise many of our patterns is No
Sleep No Rest how many people could use
an extra month of sleep right now come
on a whole month don’t call me don’t ask
feed me through a
tube and put a cath in cuz I don’t want
to get up and go to the bathroom like
extra month of
sleep but that no sleep in the pattern
no rest in the pattern scrolling till
4:00 a.m. in the pattern and got to get
your school kids to school at 6 like
it’s the pattern the product is
anxiety every day all the time I’m
forgetting something I don’t know what’s
going on what’s Happening and and you
can you can counteract it with the
promise of
Peace he’s the prince
of so you need to lean into the promise
so it can change
the and you get a different
product we need to lean into
the God you are the Prince of Peace your
word says that you give peace that
passes all I don’t understand understand
why my kids are so bad I don’t
understand why I’m not in a better
financial position but God you can give
peace that passes all that so today I
pray about everything I bring everything
to you with Thanksgiving and I’m
believing that you’re going to give me
peace which changes
my and everybody wants the promise
without changing the
pattern let me give you another one okay
you have a pattern of hiding things some
of y’all got accounts that you done
forgot to pin
to so much stuff other
places so many things just to back up in
case the backup plan doesn’t back
up nobody has access to your email or
your phone identity theft the enemy’s
already stole
that you trying to protect something
that you can get
back your soul is the only thing you
can’t get back if you let the enemy take
it but you hiding things so the product
is what
addiction do you know how many people
are addicted to things in here and you
don’t even consider it addiction cuz
it’s your
pattern oh
God we give patterns a
pass because they please
us okay
how many people get pleased by having
something sweet late at night
come sound like a siren in
here because it pleases us then we
rationalize it ain’t that bad it’s only
four
cookies she said it’s only
six it’s it’s only four cookies but four
cookies
times 20
nights y y’all know what I’m saying
somebody tried to call me out what is it
Pastor you got a
calculator you should help me help the
man of
God but four
cookies times 20
nights it’s 80
cookies what if you went to the store
every time and said please give me 80
cookies I’m about to devour
them we don’t think about it like that
because what the enemy does is he
desensitizes you to make it a pattern
that you’re acceptable
with but the end result is still
forfeiting your
promise I’m trying to give y’all
practical things okay but the promise of
God for everybody that’s struggling with
addiction is what whom the sun sets fre
free it’s free indeed or free in
action okay let me give you another
pattern comparison uh-oh cuz some of
y’all been in here all service you ain’t
even looking at me
you look like one of them
chickens look at their clothes look at
their band look at their
like and the product of your comparison
watch it
insecurity
I don’t even understand there are more
beautiful people in this world who don’t
think they’re beautiful more creative
people in this world that don’t think
they’re creative more talented people in
this world that don’t think they’re
talented it’s not the product of your
talent or your beauty or your giving
it’s the
pattern of
comparison the quickest way to devalue
something great is to compare it to
something
else but what do we do we have a promise
from our God
confidence I am who God says I
am he that began a good work
in shall be faithful to like y’all we
need to lean into the promises so we can
change the pattern and get a brand new
product last one I need y’all to do this
this week do not play me cuz all of your
pattern and okay let me help you it’s
easier to start with a
product than it is to start with a
pattern cuz y’all like what’s my
pattern it’s so normal you don’t even
know the product start with that what do
you do that you don’t
like what do you do that if everybody
knew you did that you would cringe on
the
inside start with that okay can I be
honest
yes for
years I wore
Spanx now the ladies are laughing cuz
they know what those
are men not so much the dudes from
Australia are like spanks might what is
spanks but instead of working out and
committing to healthy
eating I wanted to change the product
that if I would come out here in a I
mean full body like from here
hold I had to get help to put it
[Laughter]
on like and I would be in full wrestler
suit under all my suits under because I
wanted to quickly change the
product but I wasn’t committed to
changing
the so I was uncomfortable every day up
here yelling crazy Fai and still look
fat still still felt insecure and
uncomfortable because I was giving an
illusion of the
product but what God wanted to check in
my
life what’s the
pattern he said Michael two years from
now you won’t have to wear it if you
would walk every
day God I’m walking no no no not to the
refrigerator come on some of us be
trying to use stuff as workout it ain’t
a workout if you about to just eat it
all back up
stop I walk to crispy gream that is not
your work
out in Sunday mornings before I come out
here 6: a.m. I’m up every Sunday and my
trainer Vic is at the house get up big
dog why cuz I had to address my
pattern if for some reason my jacket and
my shirt fell
off so she was like wait don’t do it I’m
not it’s not an example stop
I would not be
ashamed of what my
vulnerability would have for you to see
not cuz it’s perfect but I’ve changed my
pattern and because I changed my pattern
it has radically changed the
product Romans 12:2 this is where we’ll
end do not
conform to the
I love when the Bible just samaris
people stop conforming to the patterns
of your
co-workers stop conforming to the
patterns of your parents’
Traditions stop conforming to the
patterns of your favorite social media
star he said don’t conform to the
patterns of this word world but be
transformed by the renewing of
your not the renewing of your wardrobe
not the renewing of your house the
renewing of your mind okay very quickly
how do you change a pattern what I was
doing on the beat how I changed the
pattern number one take the
pattern acknowledge what it is how many
of you know you have a pattern right now
that you want to change hands in the air
okay can we admit it this week I need
everybody to write down five patterns
that they need to change acknowledge it
I cuss too
much she said
oh I hate churchy
people cuz if you slam your hand in the
door somebody said Jesus for most of
y’all but we want change it into
that so so so I’m asking you I go off on
my kids too
quick as soon as they do something I
punish them instead of discipline
them punishment is with
emotion discipline is for the the act of
teaching for the future many of us mess
up discipline because we punish and now
it’s another trauma wound for your child
and they going to act out anyway because
they feel like like you don’t see
them what I’m saying is let’s just admit
we do it I I keep saying it but parents
and I’m a parent and the greatest parent
sin is
pride just it meant you forgot the treat
you told him you was going to get
him that’s way more integrous than
saying you don’t need no candy
anyway what what you told me that if I
got a a you were going to get me a
candy daddy
forgot I’m sorry I made a promise to you
and I forgot about that promise I’m
going to make it up to you and I need
you to forgive me do you forgive Daddy I
am so sorry do you know what that
teaches
generationally so take everybody say
take the pattern take the pattern number
two break the pattern break the pattern
if you going to do something else you
have to break the pattern that you’ve
been in and you have to abandon what was
for me to start working out I had to
break the pattern of sleeping
in I just gave you a hack cuz we always
think that the thing that breaks the
pattern is in the field that we’re
trying to create the
promise but when I decided to work out I
had to break the pattern of sleeping in
and I love sleeping in but the only time
in my schedule that I could actually
work out was in the morning before them
kids got up so to get a brand new
pattern I had to break a pattern that I
loved what are you willing to break to
get the
promises number three everybody say take
the pattern take break the pattern break
the pattern make the pattern make the
pattern arrange what you desire it to to
be stop talking about I don’t have the
product I want make the pattern you
want you don’t want to be broke live in
a house you can
[Applause]
afford okay I I know it sounds like
super
simple but
like you don’t want to eat out all the
time
cook
well that means I’ve got to have to
learn how to cook that means you’re
going to start a new
pattern to
break you want to have good friends be a
good
friend nobody calls in checks on me no
you don’t call and check on nobody
else
okay take the
pattern everybody say take the pattern
take the pattern break the pattern break
the pattern make the pattern make the
pattern shake the pattern shake the
pattern now some of y’all are so
committed to the tradition of your
pattern that it’s been the same for 42
years no no no no no no I sit on the
front
row everywhere I go they make way for
the
anointing that’s coming
in my train is filling the tempo that’s
his TR like okay
maybe you don’t need to sit on the front
row maybe you need to serving
kids maybe M maybe you don’t need a
title in this next
season M maybe you need a
task
okay let God shake the
pattern he’ll take what you thought was
your
thing and change it just to see if you
were committed to him or the thing
me producing music I thought that was it
I thought that what what how God was
going to get Glory from my
life and God was like yeah build a
studio don’t ever work in
it yeah yeah yeah I want you to have
something that you would considered the
Apex of your musical career up until
this point and instead of idolizing it
look at it every day and know that I’m
telling you you can’t do
that huh he shook the pattern and I
would not be standing here today
ministering the word of God touching
thousands of people’s lives by something
I was not even good at at the time he
told me I had to kill what I
was he shook the pattern and what I’m
saying to you is maybe the career that
you’re about to retire from is not the
place of God’s greatest glory in your
life
I’m just saying to you maybe what
everybody knows you for up until now is
not what you will be known for when you
go on to
Glory what if he wants to shake the
pattern what do you mean Pastor Mike be
available for
edits the crazy thing about that beat
that I made if an artist gets on top of
that beat depending on what Melodies
they sing we would have to edit what I
played it’s felt good with no singers on
top of it but if a singer got on there
and went to another Court we would have
to change every we would have to edit
what was there because something greater
was supposed to come on top of
it okay I got to move everybody say take
the pattern take the pattern break the
pattern break the pattern make the
pattern make the pattern shake the
pattern shake the pattern bake the
pattern B the
pattern the thing I love about baking is
baking takes
time you can’t bake nothing
quick and most of us when we commit to a
pattern God do it in two and a half
days if God I’m just letting you know I
got things coming up so in the next 72
hours I need you to work this
miracle Abraham had to wait 25
years will you allow God to bake this
pattern will you allow him to take all
the pieces of your life and he’ll say
all right just say set it right there
and give it time and then watch the
other one
fire you can’t bake
nothing without
heat this is why most of us lose it’s
cuz as soon as it get hot Take Me
Out w it was hot in
there that accountability thing oh too
hot for
me telling the truth
therapy but God I want your
will change my patterns Lord he said oh
yeah yeah
yeah let me put you in some time and
some
heat they miss understanding my
intentions uhuh no no no got to get out
of that heat and God saying would you
trust that I don’t just provide
fire for you to be hot or
hurt I provide a fire to purify
you the only way gold is
purified is that it has to be put in
Fire and I think about those Hebrew boys
that wouldn’t
bow God is so good that anytime he puts
you in fire he comes and stands in it
with
you and for many of us God’s changing
the pattern of our life
lives and you don’t have to wrestle God
if you
obey I don’t think Jacob had to be
walking around for the rest of his
life with evidence that he was
disobedient some of you have
evidence the scars and the pain are
evidence that you just didn’t listen the
first
time and God’s saying you don’t got
to in your marriage in your life and you
don’t have if you would Jud
must
change the
pattern would everybody stand all over
this
building it’s so beautiful when I think
about patterns
because even though a lot of our
patterns have created problems you know
who else has a pattern
Jesus a few patterns that I thought
about is it says in the word that his
grace and mercy are new every morning
that’s a pattern that every day you mess
up as long as the sun comes up new Grace
new
Mercy everybody say that’s a
pattern he has a pattern he says I’ll be
the friend that sticks closer than a
brother every time you feel lonely he
said uh my pattern is to get up you let
you know I’m with you even though you
walk through the valley of the shadow of
death you don’t have to fear any evil
why cuz his pattern is to be with
you
he’s Jehovah
Gyra somebody say my
provider that’s his
pattern he’s Jehovah Shalom he’s my
peace everybody say that’s my P that’s
his
pattern
okay what are you saying Pastor Mike
this is what I want you to get your
pattern has to change but God’s pattern
never
does this is how you can walk in
confidence cuz God’s not about to drop
you he’s not about to leave
you so in this damaged but not destroyed
series week six I came to just ask you
to check your
patterns I want you to for real write
down that list what are the things you
know I don’t want to do that no more I
don’t want to have to go to alcohol to
deal with and I don’t want to have to go
to gossip
cuz everybody be like alcohol yeah weed
yeah
gossip you are
toxic and everything you touch with your
words
dies you want to change
that you got to address the
pattern as I Was preparing for this
message the holy spirit said Michael
here’s a few things I need you to
address I said Lord this message for the
people
I’m your humble servant I’ll give it to
the
people but me and my wife have been in
Communications that haven’t been we
ain’t been we ain’t been clicking two
days just ain’t been clicking and I’m
just sharing vulnerably Bri and Aaron
sitting in the room with us we arguing
make sure you have friends that can sit
in rooms while you
argue no it’s really
good and and I know some of y’all
wouldn’t allow that to happen because
you don’t trust them but but sometimes
you just need people to be there as
mediators I’m still leading the church I
still got to preach on Sunday I still
got to do all that stuff but but this is
his bride that’s
mine y’all miss
[Applause]
that and the Holy Spirit as I’m
preparing to talk to you about the the
patterns that
prophesy he said all right here come
here
baby come here
son this and this is a
pattern I need you to come to me and I
need you to take it I need you to break
it I need you to make it I need you to
what and I need you to allow it to
B and by this time next year the
communication’s going to be
different the product’s going to be
different because today you’re going to
start a brand new everybody sh of me
pattern if you know there’s a pattern in
your life that needs to change hands
lifted right now father I thank you that
we’re doing the first step we’re
acknowledging that we got some stuff
that our pattern needs to change and God
you are the pattern
breaker you literally stepped out of
Eternity to break the pattern of sin in
the life of
humanity and today we know that the same
power that raised Jesus Christ from the
dead is available to all of us right now
there is no sin there is no temptation
there is no habit there is no Vice that
is bigger than the name of
Jesus so today God we’re asking you to
interrupt our generational
patterns the generational
habits even what some would call the
generational curses father you broke the
curse through what you did let us not
believe lies anymore father every
addict every
liar every
manipulator every self-righteous
person every greedy
person every person that manipulates
with their words today God we’re asking
you help us change our
patterns and when you ask us to give up
something father God give us the wisdom
not to wrestle with
you let us trust that what you have for
us is better than what we’ve had on our
own today God we’re ready for the heart
surgery and when you put us in fire I
thank you that it’s not to hurt us it’s
to heal
us that you’re taking this group of
people from trauma to
Triumph do it from the inside
out if you’re in this room right now and
you know that you need to make Jesus
Christ your personal Lord and savior
there’s something happening right now in
this
place you’re saying God I want you I
want you to do the work on the inside of
me and I want to accept Jesus as my Lord
on a count of three whether you’re in
the room or you’re watching online
you’re watching on rebroadcast somebody
sent this to you on the count of three I
just want you to shoot your hand up in
the air people are praying for you and
God’s doing a work all over this room I
don’t know if you sense that this is not
the time to run out today God is about
to do something on the inside of
you if you want to make Jesus Jesus your
personal Lord and Savior on a count of
three just lift your hands one you’re
making the greatest decision of your
life two it’s going to make you a
progressing person I went from being a
liar a manipulator addicted to
pornography and now God’s doing a work
in my life that’s Progressive and your
name is going to be written in the
Lamb’s Book of Life if you’re ready
three just shoot your hand up all over
this room I see you I see you I see you
I see you oh come on y’all come on I see
you God sees you all the way in the back
I see you glory to God now
Transformation Church ain’t nobody
perfect in here so we pray together as a
family for the benefit of those who are
coming to Christ just lift your hands
and say God God thank you thank for
interrupting interrup the pattern of sin
the pattern of sin in my life in my life
today today I ask you I ask you be Lord
Lord I believe you lived I believe you
died and you Rose again with all power
with all power take my life take my life
I’ll serve you forever I’ll serve you
forever change me change me renew me
Transform Me transform give me new
patterns in Jesus name Ines amen can we
celebrate every person oh y’all can do
better than that let’s celebrate what
God is
doing and listen before everybody Runs
Out The Altar workers are coming this
whole week God’s going to show you
everybody shout at me patterns patterns
don’t ignore the
patterns bring all your patterns to God
and I want you to put your stuff I gave
you practical things to do this week but
the first pattern that you should make
is a pattern of
prayer if you bring everything to God In
Prayer it changes everything we say
around here prayer is not a last resort
it’s our first response
so when something goes bad this week
pray about it
pattern when you’re angry pray about it
it’s a new pattern and I don’t want you
to leave this building or online without
getting prayer I’m going to ask the
worship team to come up and everybody’s
about to be dismissed and I’m believing
this is going to be the best week of
your life but some of y’all need to
start the pattern of prayer and you need
to come get agreement if two or three
would Gather in his name about
anything things begin to change
change father I thank you for blessing
the people that have come today thank
you for doing a work on the inside of us
thank you for a brand new pattern that
is starting Speak Lord we’re ready to
hear from you have your way in us and
through Us in Jesus name we agree
somebody say Amen Hey listen if you gave
your life to Christ for the first time I
want you to get the QR code that is on
the screen and I want our team is going
to send you some resources to help you
create brand new patterns get in a small
group I feel the presence of God right
here you need to get around people that
can help you change your pattern and if
you need prayer husbands wives children
from all over this place I want you to
come right now go out and live a
transformed life oh I feel the presence
God come on hey I want to take a moment
again before we jump off and say thank
you our church is not built on one
individual but on the sacrifice of so
many and you being a part is means the
world so thanks for watching the message
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