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let’s think about it for just a moment

well what are the requirements for

waiting upon God because there are

requirements well the first one is this

and that is I have to trust him if I’m

gonna wait upon God I’ve gotta trust

them because my waiting is saying I’m

trusting you God that your timing is

better than mine you know what I do not

know your time is always right and so

I’m gonna trust you and I’m gonna wait

till you give me permission to go there

I’ll do this I have that ababa Ella it

isn’t that God’s trended the promise of

anything he only wants what is best for

us so it takes faith and then what I

mean by better simple this am I willing

to trust God for his timing before I

make a decision you say well how do you

will you know God’s timing he will show

you what does he say ask and it should

be given you seek and you should find

nothing that she’ll be open to you that

is God is willing to show you the truth

if you’re willing to ask him now if

you’re living in sin disobedience to God

you’re probably not gonna hear him

because you can’t hear and because you

don’t think they wanna hear but I’m

talking about people who really truly

want to do the right thing you want

what’s best for you for your family

decisions that you have to make it takes

faith to wait upon God because trusting

him doesn’t mean I’m gonna get what I

want when I wanted trusting him says I

believe that when the timing is right

God will provide what I’m asking him for

so would you say that you have the faith

to wait upon God when you come to a

decision in your life a major decision

it takes faith to wait because we think

well if I don’t get it now what I won’t

get it if I don’t do it now it won’t be

done let me ask you a question is there

anything too hard for God no can’t God

control any and every circumstance yeah

if God tells you to wait do you think

that something’s gonna slip out from

under God’s care know if we’ll stop and

think the power of God the wisdom of God

the love of God the knowledge of God

we’re not going to miss anything

we ought to have but waiting upon God if

God doesn’t provide something that

you’ve asked for and you are trusting

him it’s because you either don’t need

it because it’s not good for you it’s

not the right timing it all boils down

to this do I trust him or do or not a

second thing that is required of us and

that is simply patience in the 37th some

listen this three times the 37th Psalm

he says beginning in verse one do not

fret 2nd times he says rest of the Lord

wait patient for him do not fret third

time do not fret three times in that

Psalm he says don’t pray that is don’t

allow yourself to be they get anxious

about something when you can ask God

about it now if I should ask you do you

believe God loves you you would say yes

what would you include in love wouldn’t

you include good advice good guidance

provision help strength energy what when

you include those things and God’s

guidance and love for you yes you would

if you believe that God is who he says

he is you can believe that God will show

you the right time to do anything and

everything the right time to make a

purchase the right time to go yonder the

right time to do this the right time to

have this particular job God’s timing is

always perfect though I believe that he

has our best interest at heart if I

believe that I’m gonna wait but watch

this somebody says I don’t have any time

to waste you never waste time waiting on

God

never you’ll always find out that his

timing is always the right time it takes

faith it takes patience it takes courage

and I love one of my favorite verses in

the Bible is in this first chapter

Joshua he says have I not commanded you

be strong and courageous do not tremble

or be dismayed for the Lord your God is

with you wherever you go and so if I’m

gonna trust him I’ve got to trust this

time it takes courage let’s say no the

two offers for example I remember on one

occasion somebody wanted to give me a

very very valuable piece of property and

build me a house at no cost in a

wonderful place I thought it was a great

idea I did and so we said about he he

just said here’s the architect and you

know just design it just design it the

way you want it and here’s where we’re

gonna put it which was on a beautiful

island and so naturally I thought well

Lord you just blessing me and then when

I got to pray in that’s not what I got

now I got real encouragement from the

person who wanted to do it and

encouragement by the architect naturally

and so the Lord and I had to talk about

it and I wanted to know well why not why

not and the Lord reminded me that’s not

the right question the right question is

if it’s my will and this is not of me

it’s not my will it looks right it’s

free but it’s not my will and so you

must say no

well then I had to deal with that

Heather I’ll tell my friend that I

cannot accept something so valuable and

beautiful and desirous and when I

finally did naturally he did not

understand

I said the only thing I can tell you is

this when God tells me not to do

something I’ve made enough mistakes in

life to know he means exactly what he

says and I cannot require of God to tell

me why sometimes he’ll tell you why

sometimes he won’t it was probably about

six months later that I realized why

now did I covet it doll during that time

no I didn’t I knew very clearly that God

was saying to me no this is not my will

it looks like my will but it’s not this

is why listening to God is so very

important and it’s why it takes faith

patience and courage to wait upon him

till we know his will many things look

like the will of God because oftentimes

it looks like God’s just being good to

you in other words I couldn’t think of

any reason not to accept something that

was so desirous but finally the Lord

showed me I didn’t have to understand

why all I had to understand this what I

was going to be obedient or not God’s

not watch this God’s timing is perfect

it’s perfect it may appear to be late

but it’s perfect timing

because God knows all of the avenues

that affect us it takes faith it takes

patience it takes courage it takes

determination to obey God takes

determination sometimes because of all

of the things that other people think

and what they say and maybe their

influence in your life and all the rest

it takes determination to wait why are

you going to wait this this is a chance

of a lifetime why you

wait watch this carefully you say what

do you keep saying watch this carefully

because I want you to watch it carefully

because it’s so very important things

may look exactly right but something

deep down inside of you who is the Holy

Spirit is cautioning you and watch this

carefully if you don’t obey the heating

of the Holy Spirit he doesn’t get louder

and louder and louder he comes on loud

to begin with but because of your

disobedience you hear him less and less

and less violently you don’t you have to

determine you have to determine to wait

for God especially when you’ve got lots

of pressure on you you have to determine

the way to plan together everybody has

an opinion about something so think

about it it takes faith patience courage

determination and then it takes strength

know not moving until God says move not

making a choice until God says make a

choice it takes strength and so we go to

the scripture and who is the source of

our strength

Almighty God Lord of this is not your

will give me the strength to say no and

Lord give me the desire of my heart for

you and for obedience so strong I don’t

want to do anything that brings about

disobedience in my life it takes

strength to say no and especially if

somebody is saying oh come on come on

come on come on it’s gonna be okay and

let me tell you what’s gonna be okay

nobody can change the mind of God by

telling you it’s gonna be okay and this

is why you have to be careful it’s easy

to listen to loud boys

is rather than the quiet whisper of the

Holy Spirit

he’s not gonna shout unless it’s so very

important that God is not gonna put up

with it and the other rules with his

sovereign care and comes down so strong

no and God knows how to do that so let’s

go over them again it takes faith

patience courage determination strength

and then the last one it takes is

endurance you just have to hang in there

and listen to people tell you why you

should listen to people tell you why you

should not endure that is you endure

their suggestions their influence their

testimony or whatever it might be but

you have to decide if you’re gonna be

obedient to God or not waiting upon the

Lord is a lesson we learn and having

heard this sermon I pray to Almighty God

you do not walk out of here and forget

what you’ve heard if you do you’re going

to get in trouble the world’s full of

trouble

the world’s full of offers people full

of suggestions of how you ought to live

your life and what you ought to know

what you should not do there’s only one

ultimate supreme voice that you listen

to and that’s God if I’m going to wait

upon him and listen to him it takes

faith patience courage determination

strength and endurance that means I’m

willing to hang in there God with you no

matter what until you show me what to do

obey God leave all the consequences to

him but a way to fund the Lord until you

know that you have heard what he

requires of you