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Jesus came to the jet-samani garden
to prepare for the cross to remember
that the crushing and all that he was about to
experience that the secretions of those
within him were better than the
pressures that oppressed him and I
hope i wrote this book to someone who has
something in them that couldn’t
get it out any other way and i
want them to understand that pressure
turns into power when it’s
God doing the pressure pressure
turns to power
Joseph yeah Joseph what is
better than that he was tested
in his affliction yes sir that’s
it he was tested in his
affliction absolutely and don’t you believe
that the reason why Joseph was
able to be strong and he was able to look at his
brothers and say what you wanted
you wanted it for evil but for
God but God but God had not planned
for the good do I see in
your life that I admire so much is that
you have re kept this goddamn in the middle
of your story absolutely a lot of
people want to get him out
you meant the bad for me and then it
just ends there that’s where their
story ends i think i
think it’s for that God
chose her among all the brothers I think
that’s why God blessed her
because Joseph had the ability
to bless someone who had
hurt him
you see when you start talking about
wine you have to talk about capacity because
the growth is there and Joseph gave
the example of the capacity to be
greater than his situation and therefore to
whom we give a lot we ask a
lot and I really believe with all
my heart when you read the story of
Joseph that his greatest strength was his
ability to love what he had
victimized because when he saw them
he cried it’s true you remember
before he divulged before he
admitted he was c is right he had
to go out and cry his heart was so
tender c is true and i actually
think when he said you wanted it
for bad but god returned it for
good i think he was trying to
comfort him not chastise them you
think you are right yeah and it’s
going to be ok it’s going to be ok it’s going to be ok you
had foreseen the harm but it’s ok God
transformed it and I still got there
when you take your story away from
people who when we hurt
and that you determine in your heart
that whatever you did it doesn’t matter
I still got there you won’t have any
reason to be bitter and that’s it actually
it’s not just
that I got there despite you a in
many ways i arrived thanks to you
thanks to
you because of you i didn’t know but you
want to help me
you trained me you prepared me and i have
this ability because you stretched me
you give us the ability to
reinterpret our past, isn’t it,
rather
than seeing ourselves as victims of a
difficult past, it gives us the grace
to rega rder back and say
oh okay our sovereign Lord was
at work even in that even in that
even in that if God did not spare
his own son yes but there forsaken
for us but the livery for all of us
who am i to think that i am
exempt from any trial
why not me job says the lord
knows the path that i take and when
he has tried me
i will come out like pure gold and maybe i am in the
fire right now
but i’ll come out like pure gold and
i think if you can keep the
promise
of wine with you as you’re crushed
underfoot that’s not my
final form that even if i stain the feet of
those who have oppressed me now this
is not my final form there is
something coming out of me that is greater
than those who hurt me and those coming
out of me you can never leave
stop if you manage to keep this
in mind you will understand why Jesus
came to the garden of jet-samani to
preparing for the cross to remember that
the crushing and all that he would go through
that the secretions of those
inside him were better than the
pressures that oppressed him and i hope i
wrote this book to someone who has
something in him that couldn’t
get it out any other way and i
want him to understand that pressure
turns into power when
God does the pressure it’s true
pressure turns in power
we assume the presence of
pain and the absence of God but what
you are saying is that the presence of
pain can be the best work of
God absolutely
work of God and if you
my wisdom is formed by my mistakes
you only get as smart as
you used to be stupid
i’m pretty smart
oh yeah you know you think about what you’re
trying to tell your kids you’re
suddenly trying to tell them what
not to do because i don’t want to not that
you resume the class I have already r take
the course for you it doesn’t work
don’t try to go that way go that
way and yet sometimes they have to
have their own experience to have
their own relationship with God but and
I think the word is in the process
of be
written through the experiences of our lives
even today
in some way we are the
67th book that we are living epistles
of the bread of men and that God
writes through the situations of our
lives because we are the only
bible that some people will see
so sometimes my testimony is not
so much of what i say but
seeing me survive what no one else
could have survived by this i
know the lord is with me
because he did not allow my enemies to
triumph over me
can I read an excerpt from one of my
favorite authors yes go ahead
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if your life is suddenly unstable
and you notice an increase
in the amount of mess and manure
placed on you
pay attention it is a signal from the
Lord for you to look
carefully for areas where your
growth may have stopped the winemaker
applies an additional quantity of
manure
to a plant which
stubbornly refuses to grow
because the disorders of life
serve of vitamins needed for
healthy fruit yes sir yes sir
yes
sir well you are using some pretty
nice language here but this is describing or
some of where some of our
listeners are growing is
smelly growing is a
smelly business it stinks yes growth is a
smelly business yes
growth is a stinky business
birth is dirty
i used to think babies
were born and he looked like baby
gerbert like in the old movies when
we were little where he just came out
and then the baby looked like the
Gerber baby but in real life the
birth is messy the birth
is a business re smelly birth
is a painful affair and
birth is all about
pushing and pushing and the baby is bruised and the
sea is weak and weary because
life is valuable it costs
something and you can’t have no life
without work you see and what makes it
for me what makes it worth is
that the baby and now in the old days he used to
salt the baby to heal him from
the birthing process so that there
was some healing
the one of the things i’m talking about
just mentioning it real quick i
know our time is almost up
it’s the pain of healing
there’s pain after surgery
that’s not the same as before
surgery this n it is not because the
surgery was correctly performed
and effective that the patient does
not feel pain that he is having trouble
recovering that there is recovery pain
and it is not because
you feel the pain that you do
not improve it is true in fact this
pain is an indication that you are
absolutely improving that’s what i’m
telling you yeah anyone trying
to get into sports is that there’s
pleasure in it don’t even talk to me about that ah that
‘s not a good topic oh dear but
but it hurts it hurts because
it hurts because it hurts
because you’re tearing muscle and
as the muscle tears it
expands and every time you go
bulky it hurts to grow in
capacity and so people who become
these bulky people
it costs them something while
many be careful not to
envy them and want to be them i want to
be you i will be next roof
and i’m gonna have your coat you ca
n’t have my coat as much as you did
n’t resist my misery that’s fine
yes we don’t have oh my god i
know this was gonna happen i knew it
we are just below
a
word you have for someone that i am out there
in in this mess
i want i would like to say
if you are in this matter i have been
physically emotional
spiritual financially
in all aspects of my life i
want you to understand one thing the
lord is digging the earth and he
pull out some clay or put it on
a wheel and start spinning
it put pressure on it and
start pressing it
or put it on a trinket after baking it
whatever whatever stage she
is in she has always been in his
hands
and i want you to know
that whatever state
you are in right now you are
always in his hands amen he loves you
amen he cares of you
and when it’s all over it will take
what seemed like an overwhelming time
to produce something in you that
is so
distinct so fresh so new that
Jesus said I will drink no more wine
until I drink it
with you
in the kingdom of God then s
I have to be
because he told us he said I’ll save
the next verb for both of us it’s gonna be okay it’s gonna be okay it’s gonna
be okay
God told me that people who suffer
hurt people and so most
people if you observe and you’ve
been really hurt by someone they
hurt
you because of their pain
and if you realize that then
it’s a bit easier to
forgive them
my dad didn’t was brought up
properly and he had INSEE
at his house which I found out later
and he was not treated well by his
father and his father was a Christian and
yet he was a mean Christian and
that’s not right always a father with the
people around you
and so
he already had faults against him
when he started and that does
not excuse what he did but it is easier
to forgive if you realize
that people hurt you because of
their own pain and then another
chapter of my book that i really
enjoyed preaching this no
parking at all hours message one
day i was driving down the street and
i saw this no parking
at all hours sign and it blew
my face i thought it what
do people do with their lives they park at
the place where he suffers
and they don’t go anywhere else and
I happen to have seen a movie I do
n’t know if you have already seen it is on I
think it’s called the lady with the
van and so it’s actually a
true story it’s the story of a
woman who was homeless she lived in a
yellow van that she didn’t have in yellow and
we kept chasing her off the street
she parked on the street and we did
n’t let her stay long finally she
went to someone’s house and
asked if she could park in
her driveway for a while time because
she had discovered that she could
receive money from the government
every month if she had an address
but el the didn’t have one so he did
n’t really want to do it and it
was actually happening in England but
he let her park there and she ended
up staying there for years
years
I mean that’s a longer story
but long story short she was
yaws in concert
she had prayed i mean playing in
front of kings of queens and
just phenomenal she
really really loved God and so she
became a no and her mother superior
who was
n’t very nice she was really
jealous of her
gift for the piano and she told her that
God wanted her to give it up because
she was
proud the way she was
treated she hurt so much
by leaving and doing some kind of
depression and then at some point in her life
she ran over a young man in the
street and killed her and so by dint of carrying
the guilt of this murder and
what had happened to her she
found herself homeless and lived in his
van Of course
this part of the story was fictitious
but when she arrives in Paradise the
first person she died in
her van moreover we die where we
park and therefore the first person
she saw
when arriving in paradise was this young
man she
blamed herself for killing all these
years and he said you didn’t
kill me I purposely threw myself under
your car and so I who was
abused I carried the guilt of this
i thought what the hell is wrong with
me for my dad to watch do this to me
and how many people
another person is dysfunctional
and they hurt you
but i mean how many women
whose horny husbands think it must
be my fault
i wasn’t pretty enough or i was
n’t good enough the devil always wants us
to think we’re not
good enough and that’s why people
mistreat us and I do
n’t want to see people stop at the point
where he’s in pain
and he remained for the rest of their life
living a kind of half life as
jesus died so that you are
completely whole and all things
soul health i mean
the things that happen to me and the things that
happen to the others it affects the
way you think that’s why the
bible clearly says that one of the
first things to do is learn
to renew your mind by the word of
God
the devil has told me all my life what is –
what is wrong with you the first
thing I studied she has justice in crisis
the enemy wants to remind us
daily of everything that is wrong
with us but the Bible says he who
has not known sin he made it
become sin for us so that we
become in him God’s righteousness and therefore the
more you think you are bad the
more you will do bad things
but the more you believe that you are
right with God thanks to the sacrifice of
Jesus the
more you will do good things God does not
expect d never expect us to
do anything without giving us the
means to do so he forgives
us first so that we can
forgive others he is
merciful to us so that we
can be merciful to
others he loves us this ability so
that we can love others and
so he never asked us to
do anything it wouldn’t be
to our benefit so even when
something is difficult God is trying to set you
free from something that is going to be
much more hard if you
keep it to me it was a very
important chapter in the book because you have to
make the decision
to get your life and your driving back
on track and stop blaming everything
on what other people told you
done or what happened to you we
have heard alike
that the point of your pain will either be
your prison or your stepping stone and
day to day what am I to do in sequel
the right thing to do along the way
even when you are in pain can
you talk about it
yes
i think
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was literally recently
talking to my daughter who is 30
and whatever question she was
asking me my reaction as i was
answering her
i heard mum’s voice because it
was the same thing this
is a new problem for her but
not for me but one of the things
mum used to say all the time c is
that also going to pass
when you have
a history with God and you know
that the thing that seems the most
difficult for you at some point
you will overcome
it somehow you will overcome it
yourself learn lessons you’ll grow you
‘ll experience God in a
new way
that’s often the next right thing
you don’t have to
i have to keep talking about our
story but i even remember
our grandmother who said this dad has
a doctorate in theology e and our uncle
had a doctorate in sociology he had
a doctorate in sociology and I
said did people ask
you how did you do that how
did you manage to have these children so
educated she told me answered i
just kept doing what it
took to have kids who
were law abiding citizens
and good people and i wasn’t trying
to make it and i think when
people asked mom and dad
about us how do you do that
how do you have four
kids who are still involved in
your church in ministry what he
was doing was the next right thing to
do and for mom was
cooking dinner
from making goulash of putting cheese
on it we don’t know what it was
but it was good because it had
cheese on it and the idea that
it wasn’t necessarily the
specific thing I don’t think you
can correct me that you have keep
in mind it was just that we had to
love god love each other
and be faithful so i think the
next thing to do is watch
where you are and what i was saying to my
daughter today c is that often we
look at the big thing and
think how are we going to get
through the big thing Moses asked the
same question of God when he
stood by the burning bush and said
very well the time has come i
need you to tell pharaoh let
my people
go how am i going to do this and god says
what do you have in your hand so
we often look for a purpose and a
call and what is i’m supposed to
do and how is god going to get me
through this
and we walked with mom
through this season one day after
another giving her what she wanted to
drink trying to put her down comfortable
being there for each other and therefore
the next good thing is not the
next big th thing it’s often just the
next little thing and
because it’s the next little thing to
do it’s usually something
that seems obvious to you to do and it’s
easy it’s right there so I think
if i had to say something to
encourage everyone from my
experience is to stop trying to
get over the mountain and make sure
you don’t trip over that rock in
front of you and keep
moving forward it’s great
it’s incredible it’s incredible a
beast I was about to say that
but I said to myself good I can’t
still say that word that you are a
beast but you are a family
of in a way it’s a fake month
in our family and yeah for those
of you watching and
thinking are they saying dad and
mom you we always call our
parents dad and mom just so
you know i am proud of that dad
you talked about disruption and it
still freaks me out e when I quote you
because you are held Evans it’s me I’m
Tony Evans junior and it makes me feel weird
because you are an excellent
communicator
are you a beast the divine reset
often finally I want to say sorry in
divine destabilization
upheavals in our lives are
God’s will God wants to
reset us and he uses
disruption to do so can you
explain this to us
god creates or allows confusion
chaos problems because he is trying
to put things back in order things that are
out of order or take us to a
new level
Hebrews chapter 12 talks about
God running hot in the
physical realm because he wants to do
something in the spiritual realm as well
when there are disturbances in the
five senses of our lives
in the environment of our lives in the
chaos of my society it is because he
shakes things up to put them back
in order
or things have become
d messy either there is a new goal
he is heading towards
so he will allow pharaoh to get
tougher so you can
leave egypt and not
feel comfortable there so he is going to provoke so i
just want to encourage people going
through pain struggle
grief disappointment while his
feelings are real and you
are not there asking god what a new
thing what a new experience i love
job chapter 42 he went through a great
loss i want say that in 24 hours his
whole world collapses his business his
family his employees his children his
health all collapses and he never knew
why the book never talks
about the conversation between God and Satan
but at chapter 42 he makes a
powerful statement he says i
heard about you from louis i went
to bible study i went to church
i went to small group i went
to school Sunday but now
I saw you with my own eyes
alo rs ask God when your
world falls apart to make himself visible
in a new way and he wants to
do it because of those who allowed it to
upset your ease and your
comfortable situation until then
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