Are you a contestant or a contender? Are you just showing up for life or running the race to win the prize? In the Boston Marathon, runners have to face Heartbreak Hill. In life, we each face our own uphill battles. In this message Pastor Franklin teaches us that real leaders are born in the face of adversity. And the real prize is what’s on the other side!

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us how living a christ-centered life is

like running a long race a long life’s

journey you’ll experience ups and downs

but through it all you can experience a

new level of faith when you run with

purpose and focus on him all this month

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into the message we wanted to share an

exciting update from our mission Food

for Life in Haiti

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well back in 2009 and 2010 we saw video

of Haiti with Bobby and sherry Burnette

and when we saw children and adults

hungry and that that’s got to touch your

heart

and we at that moment decided to help

the Haiti our project

I’m from Djibouti basically sending our

belkaid service given but finally I’m

giving them to attend give a liquid you

leave ice cream pops wine anything o my

Shyam got bigger Jindo know by the end

of do that Lori and I have five children

so we know the value of having to have

an income to support our family Lori and

I both been blessed because we both have

jobs in our lives we’ve been blessed and

we’re now I feel like we’re supposed to

be vessels to channel some of the

blessings other people that don’t have

what we have and yeah the marketplace

will outlive us you know and then Haiti

will have a long-term way to make a

living and it’ll be an investment that

we put some funds into that will outlive

us the Lord is behind this this is a

light in the midst of darkness food for

life sustainability giving jobs changing

lives not only for now a niche here but

14 years 20 years 30 years and 50 years

you

you

first Corinthians chapter 9 verse 24 do

you not know that those who run in a

race all run but one receives the prize

run in such a way that you may obtain it

everyone who competes for the prize is

temperate discipline in all things now

they do it to obtain a perishable crown

but we for an imperishable crown

therefore I run this way not with

uncertainty thus I fight not as one who

beats the air but I discipline my body

and I bring it into subjection listen

when I have preached to others i myself

should become disqualified Paul uses the

analogy of running a race and he’s

talking to Greeks he’s talking to the

Greek culture and the Greek people they

were very athletic

they were very fit they prized physical

fitness in the Greek culture he says

it’s not speed but endurance it’s not

that everyone enters the race and he

draws this analogy but he says it’s

those who win the prize there is no

there is no in the Greek culture there

was no reward for the second place or

the third place only if you won the

prize were you a winner and it’s like

running a marathon living for God

requires us to be temperate or

disciplined in all things just like a

athlete has the discipline his body just

like an athlete will abstain and be

temperate and know that if I eat a pizza

tonight I’m not going to perform perform

well on the field in the morning they

know that they they’re temperate in all

things you must be temperate in all

things he said and you you avoid excess

as a runner in your diet you retain your

flesh you restrain your flesh it’s under

subjection your patient in other words

you endure without complaint so I came

upon a story that I want to share with

you today true story of what happens in

the Boston Marathon the Boston Marathon

is one of

premiere marathons that runners are

familiar with particularly professional

runners 26.2 miles they run in they

train and what is interesting is the

first 16 miles of the Boston Marathon a

lot of people don’t know this but it was

it was it was designed by the planners

of the Boston Marathon that the first 16

miles be a slowed down grade he’ll you

may not know it when you’re running it

but the whole time for the first 16

miles of the Boston Marathon is it’s a

slowdown grade run downhill but then

when you hit the 16 mile mark there is

something that begins to take place

particularly in young runners that

confounds them when the race starts out

and the gunshot goes off and the racers

start running everybody looks good

everybody looks fresh everybody’s got on

the shorts and the nice tennis shoes and

the little number and they all look like

runners all of them but when they get to

the 16 mile mark it’s a proven fact that

physically something begins to happen to

your body the muscles begin to really

really have a have a meltdown the mind

begins to get a little foggy and at the

16 mile mark something begins to happen

it comes when you’re at your weakest

condition when you’re most depleted

that’s when the designers of the Boston

Marathon have the first heal you have to

climb and it’s called Heartbreak Hill

they know that after the runners have

run for 16 miles all the amateurs and

the beginners will run and run and run

and they think I got it I got it but

they get finally to the 16 mile mark and

something begins to break down it’s

called hypo Ksenia when your body and

the endorphins and everything inside

begins to drain and

the brain has a choice to pull the rest

of the energy out of your body or your

muscles and the brain wins and you you

all of your power all of your energy all

of the endorphins it goes to your brain

and now you’re running on raw muscle

power that’s running on its own and

everything in your body is screaming

stop stop stop and then they said what

happens is the head begins to get cloudy

at the 16 mile mark

it’s called hitting the wall for runners

and when they hit the wall everything in

you says just give up says it’s time to

quit and especially when you hit that

wall when you really need a break

that’s when it really gets hard that’s

when you hit Heartbreak Hill and that’s

when the runners start falling out by

the hundreds because there’s something

about Heartbreak Hill that breaks the

spirit and breaks the heart of the

amateur week kind of weekend runners who

just kind of showed up for the marathon

if you do happen to make it 16 miles

you’re not gonna make it up Heartbreak

Hill unless you have really prepared

yourself for this moment I’m a runner I

love to run I love to run four or five

miles a day I just I love it and I’ve

been doing it for years and years and

years every once in a while my girls

will say daddy we want to go run with

you and they will get out and just take

off running wide open now I know if I’m

going to run five miles I need to pace

myself but they’ll just take off and

about a third around the track they’ll

slow down and slow down and huff and

puff and I’ll just go right by them and

I’ll look back and wave

it’s a blessing you don’t pay any

attention to people who come out of the

gate real fast

the real contenders are content they’re

disciplined they understand that I’m

holding my flesh back for this race I’m

going to need the energy when I get to

Heartbreak Hill

the real experienced runners know

Heartbreak Hill is coming I didn’t

expect it to be a downhill run the whole

way I didn’t expect it to be easy

I never expected there just to be a nice

little trot across the finish line I am

fully aware that if I’m going to have

what I need to get over Heartbreak Hill

and get to the prize I’m going to have

to pace myself we need to get out of

just being weekend contenders see what

we don’t understand is the strategy of

Heartbreak Hill

by those who designed the Boston

Marathon was to weed out weekend runners

weed out the guy who’s just out there to

impress his girlfriend and he said let’s

go and his belly’s hanging over it you

know and he’s going to get out there and

run the Boston Marathon you might run

downhill a good long ways but when you

get to heart ache you might have a heart

attack he’ll when you get there it’s

designed to weed out the amateurs it’s

designed to get rid of the social

runners it’s designed to weed out the

weekend contestants those who just have

nice fancy shoes and colored shirts and

and they look the part of a runner

Heartbreak Hill nullifies everything but

stamina and physical conditioning and

training and desire and the wheel to win

if you don’t have that you will never be

able to get over Heartbreak Hill I don’t

care how good you started I don’t care

how far you ran when you get to

heartbreak

EAL if something isn’t in you that says

I cannot quit you won’t make it

Heartbreak Hill weeds out the guys who

are just out there Heartbreak Hill comes

when fatigue is a real factor you face

your Heartbreak Hill when you are

exhausted when you’re worn out when

you’re worn down when everything in you

is screaming quit that’s when you have

hi-pro the Semak spiritually you have it

and suddenly you’re physically exhausted

fatigue has set in to your faith and

into your praise and into your spirit

and everything in you says quit because

now you’ve been running and running and

running and it was easy when you first

started but now you’re facing Heartbreak

Hill something’s breaking your heart

something’s breaking your dreams

something’s breaking your heart your

children are causing you to be

heartbroken your marriage your family is

leaving you heartbroken some crisis

you’re going through it’s in that moment

in this Christian race that you find out

what you’ve really got it’s not the hi–

times it’s when you’re facing heartbreak

heal feels like your muscles are running

on nothing your head feels dizzy and

foggy it’s in that moment you have to

stretch it’s in that moment that you

have to decide I’m not a weekend runner

the Ethiopian runners are the fastest

runners in the world they’re so little

they’re so skinny and if you ever

running in a race and some guys from

Ethiopia show up you need to just go get

you a doughnut and watch because because

it’s not going in well have you ever

seen these guys how many of you I follow

running the Ethiopians are the fastest

runners in the world and if they show up

just forget it

don’t embarrass yourself especially if

you’re a white guy like me don’t get out

there and try to outrun those Ethiopians

they can run like you would

not believed and here’s why this is what

one was interviewed recently from

Ethiopia Africa and this is what he said

he said we run up heal all our lives

he said you Americans just run and

practice running straight and then

uphill

he said we run uphill our nation is

running uphill all our lives so when we

come to Heartbreak Hill it’s no big deal

I’ve been running up healed my whole

life why would I quit now I love that we

stretch ourselves we run uphill we’re

not amateurs we’re temperate in all

things we run to win we don’t quit we

don’t stop Heartbreak Hill is located in

one of the lonely places loneliest

places of the race when you first come

out of the starting gate they’re

cheerleaders they hurt their there

there’s people screaming there’s

thousands of fans clapping but when you

keep running and you get to that 16 mile

mark and you’re about to go up

Heartbreak Hill there are no fans

there’s no cheering it’s lonely it’s by

yourself nobody’s saying you can do it

you can do nobody’s running out offering

you some Gatorade there’s nobody there

but you it’s a lonely place and some of

you can run as long as people are

encouraging you some of you can run as

long as somebody’s bringing you you know

a spiritual Gatorade and always

encouraging you but there is a place

you’re going to get to in your future

walk with God I hate to tell you this

but it’s the truth

there’s a Heartbreak Hill somewhere in

your life you’re going to encounter and

there won’t be anybody there cheering

you there won’t be anybody there saying

you can make it there won’t be anybody

it’s the only voice that will matter is

your voice and God’s voice and you have

to do like David and he encouraged

himself in the Lord

it’s a lonely place there’s no visible

finish line in sight and Heartbreak Hill

but it was put there strategically by

the one who planned the race and I’m

saying to you that God allows us to run

and sometimes it’s an easy and a

wonderful and a fun run and we’re

running downhill and the wind is at our

back but then their seasons where we get

to Heartbreak Hill but the Bible said in

Psalms 37 the steps of a righteous man

are ordered of the Lord not just the

down steps and the easy steps

but now the mountain steps the

Heartbreak Hill steps God says I want

you to climb this Heartbreak Hill and if

you can get over Heartbreak Hill well

that’s a bit I just setup mouthful

that’s the whole sermon right there if

you can get over your Heartbreak Hill

something broke your heart something

happened somebody somewhere something

did something and it brought you to this

place in your Christian walk where it

broke your heart and you’re facing

Heartbreak Hill God why did my marriage

fall apart why did this happen to my

children why did this my family why did

they why did this my dad leave me why if

you won’t let heartbreak he’ll stop you

the word of the Lord to you is there is

a wonderful prize on the other side of

heartbreak he’ll most drop out most quit

most give up at Heartbreak Hill but

there are some who say I never thought

it would be easy I never expected a

smooth ride across the finish line most

runners expend themselves but there are

those who are tempered who have a made

up mind who discipline

and even if no one cheers you and no one

pushes you men and women who understand

that God has placed me at this point and

what the enemy meant for my evil I

didn’t never think I’d be at Heartbreak

Hill some of you been in relationships

and you’re still crying about some guy

who left you some girl who left you some

person who left you but I want to say

that what they meant for your evil God

will make work out for your good if you

won’t quit at Heartbreak Hill some of

your facing tragedies and have faced

tragedies and the word of the Lord to

you is if you will get over your

heartbreak he’ll quit living there quit

talking about it quit building your life

around the pain of yesterday but it’s

time to go over Heartbreak Hill because

there’s something good going to happen

to you if you won’t give up at

Heartbreak Hill I need somebody to give

God a shout of praise if you believe

there’s hope in your future here’s what

I want to say it’s at that moment that

the real leaders come forth 416 miles

other people have ran ahead and they

look like they were going to win but

when they get to Heartbreak Hill but if

you don’t watch it you turn around and

here comes the real leaders the real

leaders are born at Heartbreak Hill

that’s where that’s where preachers are

born

that’s where ministry is born that’s

where that’s where leaders are born not

running downhill with no resistance but

leaders are born when they face a huge

mountain and it breaks their heart but

they persevere and they won’t quit and

they’re crying and they’re struggling

and the mind is cloudy and everything

inside is saying give up the dream ain’t

gonna happen it’s not going to happen

but

real leaders then kick in and say I know

what God told me and by His grace I’m

going to win the prize whoo let’s

rejoice this is where greatness is born

not going downhill but at Heartbreak

Hill

that’s where greatness is known you can

get over a broken heart you want to be a

leader

let God break your heart and see if you

can get over the Heartbreak Hill he puts

in your life and that’s the test always

and if you can get over it not be bitter

and not be angry and I hate and not be

all upset at God and man even when you

get no explanation and you don’t

understand and God just breaks your

heart but you still say god you’re a

good god don’t understand but I love you

that’s where leaders are born I thought

about in closing the story of Naomi let

me tell you about Naomi Ruth and Orpha

Naomi started out of the gate man they

had on the sneakers they had on the they

had on the running shirts and the nice

striped shorts and beautiful family she

had her husband she had her two sons

they married two beautiful daughters

is the biggest happiest family you’ve

ever seen the gun goes off they start

running the race it and this wonderful

running downhill running down here oh

this is so fun look at our beautiful

family the running and the wind’s

blowing in their hair

it looks like the Brady Bunch they just

they’re just having a wonderful time

holding hands running and then

Heartbreak Hill comes and the husband

dies and then the son dies and another

son and so now you have Naomi who is a

widow and you have her daughter-in-law

Ruth who is a widow and you have her

other daughter-in-law Afra who is a

widow and they’re standing at Heartbreak

Hill and Naomi hears that there’s bread

in Beth

ham on the other side of Heartbreak Hill

there’s a prize and she turns to her two

daughter-in-laws and she says our lives

have been devastated we went out fooled

but now we’ve come back empty and she

says don’t call me Naomi anymore call me

bitter life has dealt me a hard blow and

she said girls you need to leave me

alone and you need to go to find you

another life

this one isn’t going to work for you an

offer came and kissed her on the cheek

one of her daughter-in-laws and said I

love you but I’m not going to climb the

hill I’m going back where I came from

and they parted but Ruth grabbed her and

she said where you go I will go and your

people will be my people and we’re

standing here at Heartbreak Hill and

we’ve lost our loved ones but you know

what we’re not going to die at the foot

of Heartbreak Hill we’re going over

Heartbreak Hill and we’re going to see

what God has on the other side they go

to Bethlehem and when they get there

there was a guy by the name of Boaz and

God says let me hook this couple up now

who was Ruth Ruth was a Moabite the

Moabites came into existence because a

lot slept with his own daughters she was

the product of incest so Ruth was the

product of incest and Boaz was the

product of a prostitute mother but they

made it through there Heartbreak Hill

and they got to the other side and now

God hooks up Ruth with bow ass they get

married and they have a child named

obeyed and obut had a child named Jesse

and Jesse had a child named David and

David had a child a grandchild named

Jesus

God took that family from incest and

prostitution to Matthew chapter 1 there

in the genealogy of Jesus Christ but

they had to make it through Heartbreak

Hill

don’t tell me God can’t bless your

family don’t tell me God can’t bless you

beyond your background

don’t tell me God can’t move in your

life and even if you’ve been through

heartbreak don’t quit don’t give up

don’t throw in the towel because on the

other side of Heartbreak Hill there is a

prize there is a crown there is a reward

if you won’t quit and you won’t give up

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