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your friends are gonna act like they
know what they’re talking about they
know nothing right we know everything if
you want to know more than your friends
come to us everybody wants to know more
about sex than their friends and so we
would have conversations and we’d have
to watch the shock Factor but we’d also
bring things up like hey we understand
that oral sex is a reality for Junior
High kids is that is that true is that
true yes Mom and Dad that is true and
then give them because they’re carrying
some stuff and they don’t know how to
unpacking it’s bothering them or maybe
your sons have been called Gay because
they don’t want to get involved in this
kind of things and you know they’re
navigating things and in this day and
age of transgender and stuff like that
you know a lot of young boys
have a lot more fascination with mail
than female when they start going
through puberty they’re like what is
what’s happening right what’s happening
to my body and and they actually don’t
really care about what’s happening in
the girls by they’re like what’s
happening to my body and how how do I
look compared to other guys and so they
have same-sex Fascination and this world
is labeling that as same-sex attraction
right and curiosity and Fascination is a
normal thing uh and so they get they get
wounded early on because we need to have
these conversations with them we need to
talk to them about that that’s right and
girls same thing and girls are really
aggressive with some of these young men
they are when they don’t respond
sexually to them right they accuse them
of being gay and girls are you know
sending pictures to boys I know that I
have a couple friends yeah that their
their sons are just continually hounded
by girls in school sending pictures and
they they had to finally have a a
parameter which was that they’re not
allowed to give their phone number out
no to friends they that people that have
their numbers are the ones that should
and they really gave their son
permission to not give his number out
and even said you can tell them that
you’re not allowed to but that allowed
him not to just give his number out to
everybody on a first day school hey
absolutely but there is a real issue and
I think part of it comes down to this
aspect of how do we teach our kids about
sexuality in a sexualized environment
and this you know this can be very
overwhelming at times this can be like
well it’s just a sex talk it’s no big
deal no it’s it’s a constant it’s a
constant sex talk sounds like a one-time
thing exactly it’s a sex conversation
yeah and what we find is that you know a
lot of us have grown up in silent
environments where it was never talked
about it was too private talk about or
it’s embarrassing or you know we it was
just it was not a conversation that we
ever heard out of our own parents mouths
and you know the truth is that whoever
tells you about something initially the
first time becomes the expert in your
life it’s your first one what’s your
first impression so it really does
affect you and and we also find is that
there’s kind of this environment of a
saturated environment which is basically
our generation is learning about
sexuality from movies jokes playground
humor but they’re not or maybe that it’s
just an act but they’re they’re
completely missing
yeah the pursuit all of that and we also
learned that it’s kind of a conflicted
environment in the church which is very
simply
um you shouldn’t ever want it or be
around it or talk about it before you’re
married but when you’re married it
should be euphoric and unbelievable so
or have this really conflict and then
yes exactly so you know what we really
want to do is encourage you to get to
your kids soon and you know you say well
how as soon as soon enough and everyone
has their own time you have your own
children and we want you to parent your
children well which means that you’re
the expert in your child’s life but for
us you know we have we’re right in the
middle we have a three five uh eight and
nine and we told our kids around seven
seven was the age now that is even old
and many you know European cultures your
kindergartners are learning sex very
early on so that might be do you think
that’s a good idea I think if the school
if they’re already being educated in
school then you need to beat them too so
I think okay so right there would be
your cue yeah if if the school right is
tackling the education on sexuality for
your kids you need to preempt that or or
you could try to pull your kids out but
then the other kids are going to tell
them right kids are going to tell them
they’re going to hear a really muddled
thing of it so you actually need you to
be early on specifically with our
European friends like they are going to
they already you guys know this