How can you become a friend of God? In this sermon clip, Bill Johnson talks about how to develop a strong friendship with God. Drawing from Jesus’ example, we see how personal He is with everyone He met. Surrender and spending time with God are keys to becoming His friend.

just because we sing the song i am a

friend of god doesn’t mean i’m a friend

of god

i don’t mean in any way that god would

reject me i’m just saying friendship

takes time you learn their voice you

recognize a friend who calls you on the

phone because you spend time with them

what is it what is it about this jesus

that is so commanding that someone

here’s followed them

and something

inside of them comes so alive that

nothing else matters how does that

happen

it wasn’t the result of a sermon it

wasn’t an altar call

it wasn’t a uh you know a summer camp or

at the end they made a decision i’m

going to follow jesus it was just simply

somebody came by the shore while they’re

cleaning nets and jesus said follow me

peter goes

done

i’m in

what what does that take so here’s

here’s the disciples following jesus

they’re with him

for three and a half years jesus then

dies but the last week of his life jesus

starts talking to these guys

and in john 14 15 and 16 he mentions

something four times

that is so significant

on four occasions he gives them a blank

check

he gives them

what he gave solomon

he put it this way in john 15 he said if

you abide in me my words abide in you

you can ask anything you want it’ll be

done for you

blank jack

in john 16 i think it’s around verse 20

he says

up until now you’ve asked nothing of the

father remember ever all dialogue with

god has been with jesus himself

so now he says up until now you’ve asked

the father nothing in my name but

there’s a day coming

soon quickly where you will ask the

father and anything you ask him in my

name will be done for you so four times

in three chapters jesus gave them blank

checks

why

because right in the middle of it this

is his in the last week of his life this

is one of his final conversations

he unveils the reason

for four blank checks given to his

disciples

and it’s in john 15.

he said i no longer call you servants

i call you friends

just because we sing the song i am a

friend of god doesn’t mean i’m a friend

of god

i don’t mean in any way that god would

reject me i’m just saying friendship

takes time you learn their voice you

recognize a friend who calls you on the

phone because you spend time with them

it’s frequent interaction it causes us

to know this is what they value this is

their favorite color this is what they

like to do you know sunday afternoons

this is their hobby this is their

whatever we get to know them because of

time together

we know jesus sometimes through a song

through a favorite scripture

but we’ve been summoned into a

relational journey

and it was to the 12 that had been with

him for three and a half years he said

to them

you can ask whatever you want

he didn’t announce that to anyone who

was in the crowd

that would have been a welcomed message

in john 6 instead of eat my flesh drink

my blood people would have voted for

that one any day over the drink blood

thing that he was preaching

they would have bought right into that

immediately they would have increased

their numbers the altar call would have

been massive

but jesus chose not to do that here’s my

question for you

this man

asked about eternal life

and jesus gave him an answer

that was perfectly fitting for him

because jesus saw the horror

but most of us

would have led him in a prayer

and tried to make him believe

that he was fully surrendered to jesus

but was he

he wouldn’t be any more saved after my

prayer than he was with jesus’s

conversation

the point isn’t to shame people or to

lock horns with people or to challenge

that’s not the point the point is is

tenderly we love people and speak and

and care and direct people into this

relationship where it just makes sense

drop the nets it just it’s the most

logical thing in the world to do i don’t

need the boat

it’s it’s like we just we leave things

to come with i mean the farther you go

with god the less you can take with you

he could have started the conversation

with

john

15 7.

abide in me

you can just see him on the beach

peter’s never seen him before jesus

walks up says peter

abide in me my words abide in you you

can ask whatever you want it’ll be done

there would have been a whole bunch more

than peter that signed up for that one

because they would have signed up for

the stuff

and not the relationship

it’s all about the relationship

anything i build on the reward i believe

in the reward so much

it’s a central part of the faith

in the journey with the lord not the

journey for salvation but in in the

journey with the lord once we’re born

again

faith is an expression of our confidence

in him as the rewarder

that’s hebrews 11. i must believe he is

and the reward of those who seek him

the confidence of him being the rewarder

is essential in our journey

i i feel like the lord

let me rephrase this

the shaking in our life

reveals

whether we’re in it for the journey

or for all the things

because if i measure how well i’m doing

by breakthrough in these things

then my own self-esteem in christ goes

up and goes down

goes up

goes down

but if i see it for what it is

there’s a reward he’s given me

much more than i ever deserved

the next week there’s a challenge

this gives me an opportunity to draw

nearer

it’s all about the journey and who i’m

traveling with

see it’s all for jesus it really is it’s

not

it’s not

jesus looking for

entrepreneurs who

know how to handle money he just found

one there’s a prime candidate jesus

doesn’t need anybody’s gift

he can bring revival through a rock if

he wants to

he can anoint a camel to preach

i mean do whatever he wants he’s god

old testament he had a

donkey preaching

he once announced i can raise up a whole

generation to abraham out of these rocks

what

trust me

all i got to do is speak and they come

not only that i can get them to praise

the point i’m trying to make is when

when the lord the lord doesn’t look at

you know uh celebrities and

you know all the stuff and look for the

most talented people

i i love talent i do i love i love human

talent i love the olympics i love the

olympics for that reason

it’s just bizarre to me

that people will train eight hours a day

for four years eight years to run a 10

second race

and then it’s over

and if they’re in first place they won

by you know 100th of a second

how does it come down to that how do you

develop skills like that i i’m so

impressed with these guys

i love human skill i love

the musicians the actors the actresses

the business people that just have the

the intuition to know what to do

culturally they see what’s happening

they know how to invest

they know they fly over a city and they

know where the city is growing so they

invest in this land and in that land

it’s just amazing to me this natural

wisdom and skill that god’s given people

i love it all but he doesn’t need any of

it

he doesn’t look at the landscape and go

this guy can really sing i should get

him saved

he doesn’t think that way

he just doesn’t think that way

he just finds people

that have stuff

and he says

come on

you just can’t drag the boat with you

i’m not one who believes

that that message

of abandoning all is the mark of

surrender to christ and you have to sell

everything to do that you know if he

says for you to do it you do it

that’s just the point

but jesus ministered to people

differently mary and martha

lazarus very wealthy people never said

that to them why

it wasn’t at the center of their heart

see he has he has laser vision he is

is that that tenacity to go right to the

root and the core of issues

with one person is the bitterness

regarding their past

but it’s the key to their breakthrough

to another person it’s their whole

vision for their life they have to lay

it down

yeah i’m so glad that you watch this

video i do pray that it’s a great great

strength and encouragement to you and

i’ve got a verse that it really is my

cry for all of us and it’s psalms 20

it’s verse 4

may he grant you your heart’s desire and

fulfill all your plans

that’s my prayer that’s my prayers that

this would be the season of rich rich

fulfillment

thanks for joining us