God is the Master at healing broken hearts. At some point in our lives, we all face pain. How we deal with that pain will either lead us to the Comforter, or into unbelief.

when he brings healing to a broken heart

it doesn’t at least for me it doesn’t

initially start with answers

most of the time i don’t need answers

anyway i need a person

i need presence i i

if i can have the peace that passes

understanding i’m good

which has for me has meant i have to

give up my right to understand

verse 1 of chapter 16

when the sabbath was passed mary

magdalene mary the mother of james

siloam brought spices that they might

come and anoint him

very early in the morning on the first

day of the week they came to the tomb

when the sun had risen

and they said among themselves who will

roll away the stone from the door of the

tomb for us

but when they looked up they saw that

the stone had been rolled away it was

very large

entering the tomb they saw a young man

clothed

in a long white robe sitting at the

right side

and they were alarmed

and he said to them do not be alarmed

you seek jesus of nazareth who was

crucified he is risen there’s the

coolest three words ever spoken

he is risen he is not here see the place

where they laid him

but go tell his disciples and peter

which is interesting

it’s not that peter wasn’t a disciple he

just needed a little extra attention

so sometimes every one of us have needed

just a little extra nudge and jesus was

kind enough to give it to peter so he

said go tell the disciples and peter

go tell them um

that excuse me that he is going before

you into galilee where you will see him

as he said to you

and that’s a that’s an amazing promise

isn’t it

go to galilee you’ll see him for

yourself

they went up quickly they fled from the

tomb they trembled were amazed they said

nothing to anyone they were afraid

when he rose early on the first day of

the week he appeared to mary magdalene

out of whom he casts seven demons

she went and told those who had been

with him as they mourned and wept

and when they heard that he was alive

and had been seen by her they did not

believe let’s stop right there for a

moment

you know what let’s read the next two

verses

three verses after that he appeared in

another form to two of them as they

walked in the country

and they went and told it to the rest

but they did not believe them either

verse 14. he appeared to the eleven as

they sat at the table he rebuked their

unbelief and hardness of heart because

they did not believe those who had seen

him after he had risen

i i returned to this story you know you

have places that you’re familiar with in

scripture and you return to just for

i call it recreational reading it’s just

it’s just where you go to just to kind

of be refreshed with what is spoken and

this uh this portion has uh has meant a

lot to me personally because it shows me

how to number one how to deal with

mourning every one of us have

disappointment every one of us have lost

every one of us got stuff that we have

no explanation for

uh you just get that in life

and if you don’t know how to navigate

that stuff you end up crippled you can

call it whatever you want you can you

can call it well that’s just not my gift

that’s not my calling but really you’re

just resisting to step into who you are

because you’re hurt

this issue of pain he says here it says

that they uh they were mourning in verse

10 and they did not believe

mourning

will take you one of two places first of

all mourning is biblical

if you if it takes you to god

blessed are they who mourn for they

shall be what

comfort say it again

blessed are they who mourn for they

should be comforted so here’s the point

there is one route to go in mourning

where i don’t have the answers i don’t

have the solutions i don’t have some

great strategy all i know is who to come

to

and i come to this place in abandonment

oftentimes in worship in the sacrifice

of thanksgiving when it doesn’t feel

good but i do it anyway in that

engagement with the person of the holy

spirit he comes and he comforts there’s

one direction to go in mourning that

takes you to the comforter the other

takes you to unbelief

and we can call it all kinds of

religious

titles

but the bottom line is is i’m in pain i

don’t have answers for it

and i’m going to keep the the routine up

i’m just not going to be as involved in

that area

i just suffered great loss i’m not going

to pray for the sick like i was

and it’s not always thought through it’s

just what we do is we react to oh we

suffered loss with cancer i i’ll just

somebody else has the anointing for that

i’ll seek for

people who

have injured legs or something you know

we we rationalize instead of going

head-on into the area where we need to

be healed

when he brings healing to a broken heart

it doesn’t at least for me it doesn’t

initially start with answers

most of the time i don’t need answers

anyway i need a person

i need presence i i

if i can have the peace that passes

understanding i’m good

which for me has meant i have to give up

my right to understand

there’s something about coming into that

place of engaging with the person of the

holy spirit where i’m i’m engaging with

him in surrender i’m not there to

dictate to him

i’m not i’m not with him so that i can

become successful in life

i’m there because he’s god and i’m not

i think i mentioned last week i saw the

sign and said uh

the only difference between you and god

is he’s not trying to be you

[Laughter]

excuse me that’s not the only difference

but you got the point all right all

right

so this thing of mourning then takes me

in one of two directions it either takes

me to a place

of healing

comfort from the comforter or to

unbelief now picture being the 11th

you’re huddled together in a home you’re

scared to death because jesus was just

brutally murdered before your eyes

you’re afraid you might be next if

there’s anything you don’t feel it’s

resistant to truth you feel demoralized

maybe you feel weakened there’s probably

tears there’s probably all this stuff

going on in the room but the one thing

you don’t feel like is a hardness of

heart and yet when jesus walks in the

room he rebuked them for their hardness

of heart see hardness of heart isn’t

evident through strong self-will

hardness of heart is oftentimes evidence

in the unwillingness to deal with the

pain that’s in your life

unwilling to come to the lord for him to

bring healing out of that which makes no

sense

and what happens is it builds a

resistance in us the scary thing to me

about this the story is here’s the guys

that are going to be taking on the

message to shape the course of world

history

and jesus starts off his relationship

with them with a rebuke

this is his first interaction with him

after the resurrection

and he’s basically saying listen i sent

messengers to you you didn’t believe

them

i told you ahead of time what would

happen then i sent messengers here’s

part of the problem the first messenger

was mary magdalene

first of all in this male-dominated

culture women were counted

not saying it’s right i’m just saying

that’s that’s the culture of the day

and so these guys that are running

things

who does jesus first reveal himself to

not just women

mary magdalene

the demonized tormented one

jesus chooses her first or the father

did however it works it was chosen

i remember

here’s part of the problem is you have

to learn to recognize when god is

speaking not because it makes sense to

you but because you recognize the

presence of god released when they speak

yeah i’m so glad that you uh watched

this video i do pray that it’s a great

great strength and encouragement to you

and i’ve got a verse that it really is

my cry for all of us and it’s uh psalms

20 it’s verse 4

may he grant you your heart’s desire and

fulfill all your plans

that’s my prayer that’s my prayers that

this would be the season of rich rich

fulfillment

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